So my ex asked about seeing the kids tomorrow. I was going to until my sister-in-law made me realize that my 5 year old is on this thing where she asks EVERYONE if they missed her and he's a liar and it would break her heart if she knew he hasn't even asked about them until he wants something from me. I told him I'm not going to meet with him because I can't have him see them one week then go weeks without seeing him. I cannot hurt my children the way he has hurt me... He doesn't ask unless he thinks he's getting something in return.