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Tee
Tee
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So everything is not fair why am I still learning this lesson at 30. My husband is in court now trying to get his child…

So everything is not fair why am I still learning this lesson at 30. My husband is in court now trying to get his child support reduced something that has been in the work since they raised it 4 years ago. We lost everything our home, the funds to be able to pay all our bills and still get food. We are still blessed no matter the outcome, but the legislation does not take into account your rent/mortgage or any bills you pay to sustain the home. We were on a budget that went to crap with the increase. Our oldest needs to be care for no question but what she was receiving before was adequate but because he makes more now they take more. I don't get how that makes sense or how at the end of the day she is now more well off and we are struggling, we don't qualify for assistance because he makes to much. Its crazy, but at the end of the day God saw fit to breathe air into my body and wake me up another day so I know there is a light at the end of the tunnel it just hard for me to see right now.

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Tee

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Thank you @phinnybinz

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Morgan

Мама двоих (9 лет, 13 лет), ждёт третьего

*hugs* good luck with everything.

I dont understand how someone can claim they are in debt, gets foodstamps, and has the smallest limit to spend on their…

I dont understand how someone can claim they are in debt, gets foodstamps, and has the smallest limit to spend on their children but also spend thousands on theirself. Shouldn't you take care of your kids and bills before? I mean, i collect foodstamps, but thats because after paying all our bills and taking care of our children's needs, we still need a little help. Anything we do for fun is saved up for, or is free. But we arnt going to spend thousands out of spite, greed or bordem.

so scared for my family.

so scared for my family. So I live in a trailer park. We just bought our trailer a year ago. So we just found out they haven't paid the water bill since July. We pay them every month for the water bill on top of our rent. They are supposed to pay the company. Well I guess they think they are being overcharged so they have refused to pay the bill. Now they are suing the water company but since they didn't pay the stopped picking up our trash and if they don't pay it by the 12th of next month they will shut the water off through the park and everyone will be forced to leave their homes. I'm so upset because we pay our bills every month and they didn't pay their bill so now the whole park suffers. We had finally gotten cars and gotten more financially stable and I honestly have no clue what we will do if we are forced to leave. We can't afford to move our trailer and we can't afford to get another place. I already paid my lot rent ahead. Guess I just wanted to vent about it.

This is some straight bs me & my husband work together so we can make ends meet until we are both financially stable &…

This is some straight bs me & my husband work together so we can make ends meet until we are both financially stable & where we wanna be. He makes the most so he pays the rent and I pay smaller stuff but that doesn’t mean I won’t help him if he needs it. At the end of the day it’s OUR money together and the bills need to be paid. It’s not all on him it’s on us TOGETHER everything is not just one sided 💯💯