Me and my OH argue so much :( almost daily... He talks to me like shit and snaps at me for…

Signs of a toxic and controlling person is them making you think that you're the one who is the problem. Sounds to me like your taking the blame for his attitude when you shouldn't be hunni. Xxx

Aww hun....please dont expect to be treated like that. If it was me...i'd tell him to do one if he is going to treat me like that. Your obviously doing nothing wrong. Hun...having a baby can make a mans true colours shine....@jodieiokie, is right...its controlling behaviour...manipulative! Maybe find out what is wrong with him hun..guys have insecurities and show it differently to women :) But dont stand for that behaviour...lay it all out hun! Xxx

@jodieiokie, I just want him to be treat me like when we were first together and I feel like it's all my fault :(

The fact that you started your status saying it was his fault then ended it saying it was yours just says it all. I know just how you feel because I've been through it all before. When you love someone so much you just automatically take the blame because you want them to be happy and obviously you want to be happy with them too. Those kind of relationships will drag you down babes. You're worth more than than xxxx

@winterbaby95, @jodiiiokie whenever I try to bring it up and say how I feel he gets so defensive and angry so I just don't say anything :(

@jodieiokie,

I went through the exact same thing, our relationship went from love to hating each other. He left over a month ago, initially it was so so hard but as reality sunk in it was the best thing he ever did. My relationship was all kinds of wrongs. Xx

@suzie31, I can't bare the thought of him leaving me :(

You'll get to a point where you will of had enough of it Hun. No one can tell you what you should and shouldn't do, these kind of things have to come from you cause at the end of the day, you will do what you feel is best. Like I said, I went through it all myself. I'm 38 weeks pregnant now and I kicked my other half out last month because it had gotten to a stage where I felt down 24/7. I was scared to talking to him because he turned everything into an argument or made me feel guilty for things that I shouldn't of been guilty about. I tried and tried to sort things out but speaking about it never worked because he couldn't see that he was ever in the wrong. I would start the conversation as "you've made me feel crap recently" and it would end with me apologising and trying to make it upto him. We broke up so many times because of it and I always grovelled because I was terrified of losing him and being alone. So I told him to move out. He still comes round now, and even stays sometimes. He seems to be trying abit more now he's had abit of a reality check. And I feel free and in control. Like I said, you will do what you need to, and you'll do it in your own time. I just hope it doesn't take too long for you cause a situation like that is poisonous even if you don't realise it xxxx

Try work it out @daisysmummy if you can. I couldn't bare it either and was devasted, but for all the wrong reasons. I'm the most chilled relaxed person now. But that's just my sitch x

@daisysmummy Toxic relationships arent good around children hun...I know you cant bare it...but one way another you don't want to be arguing in front of Daisy all the time hun xxx

@jodieiokie, we have an 8 week old daughter and I care for her 90% of the time on top of housework :( he's disabled and doesn't work so he can't really do much because he has a severe back injury :( I feel like I can't go anywhere or do anything without him and when we argue and I say I want to sort things out he always says "what's the point" he has stormed out the flat loads and even said he was going to leave me because I said "I can't live like this anymore" but he came back not long after because I begged him to come back :(

@winterbaby95, @suzie31 I feel so isolated :( I haven't gone anywhere or done anything without him in about a year also, he is registered disabled and doesn't work... He can't really do anything and I do 90% of Daisy's care and all the housework :( I very very rarely get the help that I desperately need but I knew when I first got with him that he had a back injury and was slowly losing the use of his legs so I knew what I was taking on xx