unless you're high risk, you don't need your cervix checked until you're closer to your due date

yes I'm going ask he's a nice doc so he will understand @kaileenicole16

yes me too I didn't have a good pregnancy I'm trying not to rush Her but I'm exhausted lol had to stick needles in my skin for a whole 5 months I just want to see her @paisleysmommy97

I would ask at your next appointment they checked me at 37 because I asked

oh OK so maybe next week @kaileenicole16

yeah I know ughhh I just want to know if im dilated at all

They usually start checking at 38 unless you ask

That's what I was thinking always good to be safe rather than sorry I know some docs want it to be natural but every pregnancy different @paisleysmommy97

they checked me at 36 weeks and i haven't been checked since my appointment is Friday the 19th which is 2 days before my due date so hopefully he checks me.

@cubanese,

getting to Manhattan in new York would take me two hours and ambulances don't go but I jus talk to him and he said he will check next week but he thinks I will go through to 40 or even 40 + so I can get a bed at 4cm dilated. I don't want to be in labor in school to each his own but school or on a train with strangers is scary so no thanks ..

my situation is different I'm in school so I just want to estimate and time it right my hospital is far @cubanese

I thought they check at 37 owk..

Too soon