Just a rant. I chose to keep my son out of day care. Keep in mind I am NOT bashing any moms who choose day care.
I am choosing to keep my son home. My level of crazy would not be controllable if he got hurt due to the negligence of a care taker. I would kill someone. I wouldn't even think twice.
I have tried to explain it to my coworkers that he will NOT be going to day care. She proceeds to tell me I am harming him by keeping him home. Bitch please. Just because you pawn your kids off from the time you wake up to the time you go to bed doesn't mean I have too. She literally drops her daughter off at day care at 8am and works til 3/4 and waits until 6:30 to pick her up. And when she gets home she feeds her dinner and sends her to bed.
Nonononono I did not have a baby to pawn him off on other people to raise. I can teach him everything he would learn at day care. I have friends who have children his age so he gets to socialize. I'm so tired of catching grief over the choices that differ from other moms.
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Yeah, I feel bad because she kind of took it upon herself to do that bc my grandma was going to me watching both of our kids and she just didn't want it to be too stressful.
@babyjjsmommy, I thought about maybe one or 2 days a week when he can talk. But I really like our time together. There are plus sides to it, and I understand that not all day cares are the same but it's not a risk I'm willing to take. I am sorry about your sister. I can imagine her nerves are shot.
I feel the same, if I didn't have my grandma to watch my son while I was at school I don't know what I'd do! I just hear too many horror stories of day care negligence and that babies/ children tend to stay sick more often if they're in daycare. I get that there are positives to it as well, but it just doesn't work for some moms. My sister will be starting her almost 2 yr old in pre school next week and I know she's nervous as hell.
It really is. Lol he works nights I work early mornings. It's hard but it's so worth it. My job is a crap job lol so they work with my schedule. He makes the money. I make just enough to cover electric, car insurance and payment and baby needs. He gets everything else. I am very blessed @babes101116
That's great that your schedules work that way 🙃
I don't have anyone here. And my hubbys parents don't speak English, only French and creole. They are from Haiti and their ways of raising children are different than how I want my son raised. @babes101116 it is my choice. My hubby and I worn opposite shifts so I can keep him home
Your choice. I have grandparents that watch the girls but that's it. School, grandparents, dad, or me.
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Yes, preach!!! 🙌🙌🙌 my baby will be 2 next month never been in daycare I don't trust people.