I just posted this and already I'm getting nasty text from family and friends do you think I'm wrong…

No way! You have a right to your privacy.

I told everyone a week after she was born they'll get over it

I want to have it this way too but I already know people are gonna be super upset. you're not in the wrong though, who doesn't want their baby to themselves on the first day?

I honestly wish I would've done this, or at least kept the visitors to a minimum. I have so many family members and it got so overwhelming. I was so tired and was unable to take a nap because everyone was excited and trying to talk to me

sometimes you just have to put your foot down and that's what I am doing I'm tired of people overstepping me and not listening to what I have to say now I also have the nurses on my side to help keep visitors away there is a password and no one knows it but me @lexury

you're absolutely right!

Nope, you are absolutely right! You are doing what is best for you and your family.

I've been thinkin about doin this myself

Same you do what you have to do for your family. After first baby experience and visitors, it would've been best to let everyone come maybe 3 days after. I was exhausted and tired to talk to everyone who well slept and excited lol

Completely agree with u this is a very intimate setting no one was there when u conceived so why have them there when u deliver I am doing same thing

i posted almost the same thing a couple weeks ago, but mine was very very rude and filled with cuss words. 😂 people are annoying me with the same thing and sucking the joy out of this expierience, im not going to let family and friends ruin the birth of my child for me. i really dont blame you, we're doing the exact same thing.

thank You ladies I would really like people to meet my daughter don't get me wrong but just not in hospital. especial since me myself haven't had any rest for about the last week and my doctor seems to think I will go into labor before my due date. and the nurses told me this will be the most tiring time so all the rest and bonding time is what I need and I am just looking out for me and my daughter. maybe my next child I will have visitors but for the first I want to make sure that I am not to anxiety ridden...

I was thinking about doing the same thing!

@elizabethslewy, it wouldn't be a bad idea to consider it you know maybe throw a welcome home baby party when you get home and settled that would be fun

Great idea @mommy2isabellafae