Just had my 30 week appointment.. And I'm just not happy with my doctors. The office is really nice and delivers at the best hospital around, but I just don't feel that cared for there. It's like in and out in 5 minutes. They barely give me any time for questions and don't even let me know how my weight gain is or what my fundal height is. They take the measurements, listen to the heartbeat, and basically call it good. I'm seeing the midwifes, am low risk, but am wondering if I should switch to the doctors and hope that helps or idk. Is this normal or should I be expecting more from them??? 😣
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Agreed! I'm gonna call tomorrow and try to switch my appointments! Thanks for giving me some reassurance!! @tiffany_sanft
Morgan Dirlam. She's amazing. I saw her my entire pregnancy. I didn't even see your last comment! Haha, that's awesome that you like her, too! She is seriously the best one there.
Who did you end up liking the best?? @tiffany_sanft
Oh cool. I like Morgan the best, and luckily she's one of the one who delivers. I tried to do that for a while, but I just scheduled like my next 3 and none are with her :( maybe I'll try to change those!
That's where I went! I just requested one Midwife, and that's who I saw the whole time. She was amazing. Have you found anyone you like? If so, I'd just schedule the rest of your appointments with her. My appointments were always super in depth and informative, so you shouldn't be feeling rushed.
@bevinw yeah unfortunately. try not to expect too much and just hope for a safe delivery 😆 but def make them answer your questions if you have any! I never met anyone who was assisting me and even got switched halfway through labor but it worked out great.
@kambam, I've been seeing all the midwifes so that comfortable with whoever is there on the day I deliver. There's one midwife who I've found to be more attentive but I don't want to be uncomfortable/disappointed when the big day comes, ya know. Guess it's just how it is! @starrbaby
@bevinw thats how my OB was. she was great etc but as a FTM i expected more attention. switching may or may not help you could ask to see someone else to see if you like them better?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
My doctor also recommended me getting the flu shot while pregnant ? I'm not sure if I want to or if i should ? It's all scary to me !! What do you ladies think ? Did you get the flu shot while pregnant ? Are there any risks? Or should I wait ? I'm so scared of taking anything while pregnant , much less getting this shot.. He said it isn't mandatory , just recommended.
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
My doctor said he would induce my labor at 38 weeks, if my baby girl still had growth issues and if the percentile dropped to 10 or less. Last thursday, it was 10 percentile, and he said if she didn't come on her own by 38 weeks, he would induce labor at that time. I'm 36 weeks 1 day today, he said my cervix was super thin, and 1cm dilated. Is there a possibility this can change... that my doctor will let her just come on her own? I don't want to be induced, i would much rather her come on her ...
Of course! I hope it goes well for you!