Just had my 30 week appointment.. And I'm just not happy with my doctors. The office is really nice and delivers at the best hospital around, but I just don't feel that cared for there. It's like in and out in 5 minutes. They barely give me any time for questions and don't even let me know how my weight gain is or what my fundal height is. They take the measurements, listen to the heartbeat, and basically call it good. I'm seeing the midwifes, am low risk, but am wondering if I should switch to the doctors and hope that helps or idk. Is this normal or should I be expecting more from them??? 😣
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Agreed! I'm gonna call tomorrow and try to switch my appointments! Thanks for giving me some reassurance!! @tiffany_sanft
Morgan Dirlam. She's amazing. I saw her my entire pregnancy. I didn't even see your last comment! Haha, that's awesome that you like her, too! She is seriously the best one there.
Who did you end up liking the best?? @tiffany_sanft
Oh cool. I like Morgan the best, and luckily she's one of the one who delivers. I tried to do that for a while, but I just scheduled like my next 3 and none are with her :( maybe I'll try to change those!
That's where I went! I just requested one Midwife, and that's who I saw the whole time. She was amazing. Have you found anyone you like? If so, I'd just schedule the rest of your appointments with her. My appointments were always super in depth and informative, so you shouldn't be feeling rushed.
Where are you being seen, if you don't mind me asking?
@bevinw yeah unfortunately. try not to expect too much and just hope for a safe delivery 😆 but def make them answer your questions if you have any! I never met anyone who was assisting me and even got switched halfway through labor but it worked out great.
@kambam, I've been seeing all the midwifes so that comfortable with whoever is there on the day I deliver. There's one midwife who I've found to be more attentive but I don't want to be uncomfortable/disappointed when the big day comes, ya know. Guess it's just how it is! @starrbaby
@bevinw thats how my OB was. she was great etc but as a FTM i expected more attention. switching may or may not help you could ask to see someone else to see if you like them better?
Of course! I hope it goes well for you!