So my son seemed super excited when we came and got him. On the way home he was saying how there was this other teacher or whatever. So I sit down and start asking small questions like was she nice? Did you like it? Meet any friends? Things like that. He then tells me like it's no big deal ( bc my son likes everyone) that the teacher said he was stupid, and then wouldn't give him any cookies cuz he was bad and the kids said he was being a whiny baby.... Now he said this stuff like it was no big deal and moved on with the conversation so I asked him again and he said the same thing. So I ask so your teacher was mean to you? He's like no.. But he didn't change his story now I feel some type of way but don't know how to go about it. Advice?
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Exactly! She didn't say a word. And I'm a little worried about how he learns already. He's not stupid and he may be a little hard to understand but he is a damn good kid with a big heart and to see him being treated bad already when he likes everyone makes me upset @lost041
it's not right at all. I stay on top of my kids schooling. the building my youngest son is in hates seeing me but my oldest boy is getting ready to go to a new building this yr too and he's special needs they will learn real fast not to mess with my baby cause I'm not afraid to go to the school. If u stay on em a few times they will learn ur not the one to mess with and besides if he was that bad to take away a treat then they should've sent a letter or something home with him @xoashl3ylynnxo
Right he said they didn't give him any cookies bc he was "bad" and all the other kids got some. And I was so sad for him.. I'm gonna make my presence known bc that's just bs seriously on the first day you are singling him out? @lost041
my kids school absolutely hates when I come in their after the first day cause they know my kids have done come home and told me something to make me mad. I'm not afraid to walk in the school and go to the classroom and talk to the teacher first thing in the morning. I've only butted heads with one teacher and after doin so she started to realize I'm not the mom. uve gotta stand up for ur child cause at the end of the day no one else will. I know our schools for kindergarten and even upper grades don't like to discipline on the first day cause a kid was acting out so if they did do that they r just wrong he's never been in a school setting and doesn't know the rules N stuff yet
I'm going too. First thing tomorrow morning I'm going to speak to someone to set up a meeting @jeanetta25
I don't blame you !! I don't wanna hear kids will be kids none of that because they don't see the affect that it has on our children when the come home crying about it . Or not wanting to go to school because are mean to them . Take care of it now before it gets out of hand .
@jeanetta25, right I will not tolerate bullying rather they bully him or he be the bully. And them teachers need to pay attention more. I'm so mad I had a bad feeling about this teacher when I met her. She seemed like she was looking down on us.
That's the thing, this school kind of pushes us out. We don't have much information. No emails or numbers, heck we don't even know what time lunch is. I'm starting to get really aggravated already and it's only day 1. We were at the school early bc they gave us the wrong time for pick up and then we were standing in the doors where they directed us to go and here he is standing out side in the pouring rain with his teacher 😫 @10yearslater0205
Yea that's the only thing to worry about is that he can say it happened and the teacher can completely deny it and use his age as a reason to believe her because he's only a child and sometimes kids say stuff that may be over alil more than what really happened. But at the same time you gotta deafen your boy even if they say it didn't happen because you just don't know and what if he's telling the truth . Something had to happen for him to say that someone said something to him that hurt his feeling a kids not going to make that up out the clear blue sky . Something was said to him and that's not okay even if it was the kids that not acceptable .
Over the phone or person not email
@xoashl3ylynnxo, that's tough I'd call the teacher at meet the teacher did she give u her call times she's available ? I'd email her tonight if not and tell her that its important y'all talk and I'd just tell her the conversation you had with your son and ask if something happened at school ..
@10yearslater0205, he's 5 and in kindergarten. He doesn't lie and if he does he's laughing when he is like jokes then admits he lied u know
How old is he and what grade ? Generally kids don't lie but have u caught him In a lying situation before ? I'd call the teacher or send her an email and tell her you need to talk to her .. Get her side of the story if it still doesn't feel right then I'd speak to the principle
Yea and my son didn't go to preschool or anything so this is so new to him he said he was crying @ilovemykids24
@jeanetta25, I wanna go back in there and punch her in her bitchy mouth so bad but I'm trying to go about it the right way. Crazy this other women came in and was pissed off bc they let her kid get on the bus when she was suppose to pick him up and she started yellin at the teacher it's like man is this how it's about to be
I would ask and see what the teacher has to say. I mean, it wouldn't hurt but there's no reason for a teacher to be that way. Singling out a child could destroy your child without you knowing. Also I agree. Make sure a principle is there.
I'm so worried that he's just lying but the way he said it didn't seem like he was @ilovemykids24
That's so sad !! Why is a teacher saying such things to a child I would be on 10 . Yes please take care of that that's not okay by any means
I would ask for a parent teacher conference....
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how the fuck do you call a kid stupid. breaks my heart. she is an awful person. not just an awful teacher. day 1...imagine an entire year of your son with her. she's going to single him out and treat him poorly. seriously furious for you.