why do men have to be like this? so last night i was making dinner while attending my 2 year old who screams, yells,…

why do men have to be like this? so last night i was making dinner while attending my 2 year old who screams, yells, causes tantrums & trying to care for my daughter whose 1 month while my bf sleeps.. i didnt wanna ask his mom because she has my 1 year old niece & she had her hands full. i went in the room woke him up & asked him of he can just watch our daughtet for an hour until i am done cooking his excuse was "bring her in here & let her sleep" and i told him No! because shes gonna keep me up allnight(shes on a sleeping schedule) & im like you know what fine whatever so i left the room and had a hard time dealing with both while cooking. why the fck do men do this ??!! like all i asked was to watch the baby for 1 hr & he couldnt even do that. ridiculous. 😑😑 like i understand you are tired from work allday but thats still no excuse & not help me. tired or not you still have to help me! i go a day with either 1 hr, 2 hrs or 30 minutes of sleep compared to how much sleep you get every night like wtf... 😡😡 you either help me with our kids or dont bother helping at all.