why do men have to be like this? so last night i was making dinner while attending my 2 year old who screams, yells, causes tantrums & trying to care for my daughter whose 1 month while my bf sleeps.. i didnt wanna ask his mom because she has my 1 year old niece & she had her hands full. i went in the room woke him up & asked him of he can just watch our daughtet for an hour until i am done cooking his excuse was "bring her in here & let her sleep" and i told him No! because shes gonna keep me up allnight(shes on a sleeping schedule) & im like you know what fine whatever so i left the room and had a hard time dealing with both while cooking. why the fck do men do this ??!! like all i asked was to watch the baby for 1 hr & he couldnt even do that. ridiculous. 😑😑 like i understand you are tired from work allday but thats still no excuse & not help me. tired or not you still have to help me! i go a day with either 1 hr, 2 hrs or 30 minutes of sleep compared to how much sleep you get every night like wtf... 😡😡 you either help me with our kids or dont bother helping at all.
i know i really hate men when they do this 😑 like we watch the kids 24/7 but when we ask them a simple job they slack at it & rather be sleeping. like im thankful he helps me a ton but. when it comes to watching the kids its like he doesnt do a good job. my son just plays allday so hes fine but when it comes to my 1 month old he just lets her cry until i get her. @babyleon
they're lazy 😒 my bd does shit like that with my kids, I go to the store & when I get back he's upstairs on his phone while my kids are doing whatever or at the park & has the nerve to tell me he watches them more then I do... yeah right!!!! 😒
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

is it wrong to be frustrated that my daughter acts like she can't do certain things with out my help. she plays dumb a lot and I wish I could be like no girl show what you know. she acts like she can't trace or match shapes so shes ask for "mommy finger" to help her so I barely hold her hand and she magically can do it but if I dont hold her hand she just scribbles and acts like she doesnt know
the pic is how she traces when I'm "helping her" otherwise it'll just be scribbles all over the page
Rant-_-...
My friend asked me to watch her dd while she took someone to do something at about 7ish & said "it won't take long"..
@vannahjam14, im not at that point where im not gonna ask him cause he helps me alot & all i asked was to watch my daughter for an hour & he cant even do that 😒 i watch my son all the time and care for my babygirl everyday & its very stressful 😞