Be careful I was told all his same stuff and 3 weeks later he has a new gf.

He sounds like my sons dad. Sometimes like @ariliyahzihmommy3 it takes starting over. Being friends and remembering the reasons you guys fell in love in the first place. Plus when we're pregnant men have a tendency to think "well it's not like she's going anywhere" but after we have the baby and snap back they know we have nothing holding us back and don't want to lose us. Like @phinnybinz said let him make the moves and play it by ear. Don't try to force anything because if it's meant to be he'll come around. Now if he thinks because you guys aren't together he can balls to the wall and start having sex with other women cut his ass off! 1) because that's putting you and baby at risk 2) because you have to show him if he wants you he has to be willing work with you and not out there having sex with other girls. It'll get better. Me and my sons father have our moments but I love him he loves me and we both don't want each other going any where we're just have to take our time and figure things out.

I think you should take your time and let him make the moves. I'm not sure I'd be sleeping with someone if I had doubts or insecurities.

so what do you think i should do? im lost. @phinnybinz

Annnnd I misread what he wrote... It sounds like he does want to be with you. Wow, I need to go to sleep 😞

well last night i went over his house and had a movie night. we had a great time and threw popcorn at each other and he kissed me and told me he loved me. i ended up staying the night and we did the do & in the morning he left me at his house while he left for work and kissed me goodbye and said i love you a bunch... now im just super confused. @ariliyahzihmommy3

Sometimes it just takes starting over as friends and trying it over again. I have to do that with my man of 8 years and 3 kids later...just gotta give it time and they will come back around. I told him I wish married couple could live in separate homes bc I just think living together causes problems lol