my mother in law offered to come help me clean up the house that has gotten bad since I can't do much. my son constantly wants to be held and feedings. I warned her before she came over that it is tier worse that it's ever been. She came over and we were having a good time my husband was watching Jesse while we cleaned. I'd have to stop for feedings and then I'd get right back to work. she was saying its not as bad as I explained it and that she's seen worse. She got to the bathroom and was cleaning for a while. I came back downstairs after feeding and changing Jesse to her screaming at my husband called him white trash told me I ask as bad as my family (growing up we had a filthy house so bad I didn't even know what my floor looked like cuz it was layered in trash) like WTF its not even that bad. I kinda lost a little bit if respect I had. like seriously the worse part was my bathtub and only cuz I hadn't been able to scrub the walls so there was soap scum build up.
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@mommy2be711, yeah that was totally uncalled for! My house is never clean, my parents don't visit cause they can't handle it, I feel if they have an issue with my house they they don't need to come around. But that was a total bitch move on your MILs part, personally I wouldn't let her come back into my house since she had a problem with it
I know but the worse part is I finally opened up to her Friday told her about my living situation growing. everything then she goes and throws it in my face like fuck you bitch @santanaanna
It's always nice to have a clean house be your baby comes first, and they aren't going to know the house isn't clean but they'll know if they don't have you attention. Don't let her get to you and do what's best for you and baby!
my house is never spotless like hers... you can literally eat off the floor. She cleans everyday. My husband and I have decided that we are not going to go see them for a while. when they call we are going to say we are busy. I don't keep her help with shit!!!! All I wanted was to get it back to the point where all I have to do is straighten up a bit and vacuum/dust once a week. I hadn't been able to deep clean since before my son was born... she had one kid vaginally. I should have said you try cleaning after you have your stomach ripped open!!!! @santanaanna