my mother in law offered to come help me clean up the house that has gotten bad since I can't do much. my son constantly wants to be held and feedings. I warned her before she came over that it is tier worse that it's ever been. She came over and we were having a good time my husband was watching Jesse while we cleaned. I'd have to stop for feedings and then I'd get right back to work. she was saying its not as bad as I explained it and that she's seen worse. She got to the bathroom and was cleaning for a while. I came back downstairs after feeding and changing Jesse to her screaming at my husband called him white trash told me I ask as bad as my family (growing up we had a filthy house so bad I didn't even know what my floor looked like cuz it was layered in trash) like WTF its not even that bad. I kinda lost a little bit if respect I had. like seriously the worse part was my bathtub and only cuz I hadn't been able to scrub the walls so there was soap scum build up.