my partner has a 6 year old daughter who lives 200 miles away, he has her during the holidays which is fine, he's just told me without discussing with me that she's moving into our small 2 bedroom flat after Christmas... I have a 3 year old son with him too..
it's not that I don't want her here at all, all I want is for him to be happy but I just feel like he doesn't appreciate anything I have to say about it.
we had a miscarriage in February which really hit me hard, but what will be will be..
when I try talking to him about having another baby he always says were not financially ready... how can we possibly be financially ready for a 6 year old to move in?!
I must sound like the worst person in the world, I just can't help but think it's just me, maybe I'm the issue.
I definitely don't think your the issue! But maybe he thinks it's an issue if his daughter moves it that there may not be any room for a baby to! It's abit odd that he never discussed it with you though seeing as it's your place to! Don't blame yourself though! And so sorry for the miscarriage I can't imagine how that felt for you both! Is he worried it may happen again? Get him to sit with you and speak to you how he feels about it all tell him how you feel make him listen to you! @j974
@elliesedanniel, we've spoken about having another baby a long time before he's just decided that his daughter is moving in.. he always says were aren't ready, we have other things to sort out, things to pay off...
why does that suddenly change just because he has decided his daughter is moving in?
I just feel like a really horrible person but I'm the one who is thinking further ahead.. he just decides what he wants and that's that.. literally just needed to have a rant to get it off my chest.
thank you for being so kind and letting me just moan!
Is abit unfair to the fact you never had a say in it! That's abit out of order! I think he thinks two is enough in the flat! Cause it seems his minds change cause of the moving of his daughter! Your not a horrible person at all! There's no horrible about it! You'd love another child what's horrid about that?? And no worries :) thus app is for a rant sometimes aha! @j974
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jodie·
thanks hun, I just need a rant, like a massive rant..
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Ellieseandgirls·
Go ahead with the rant @jodie123 we all do it and would love to hear yours 😉 let it out!! 👍
jodie·
my partner has a 6 year old daughter who lives 200 miles away, he has her during the holidays which is fine, he's just told me without discussing with me that she's moving into our small 2 bedroom flat after Christmas... I have a 3 year old son with him too..
it's not that I don't want her here at all, all I want is for him to be happy but I just feel like he doesn't appreciate anything I have to say about it.
we had a miscarriage in February which really hit me hard, but what will be will be..
when I try talking to him about having another baby he always says were not financially ready... how can we possibly be financially ready for a 6 year old to move in?!
I must sound like the worst person in the world, I just can't help but think it's just me, maybe I'm the issue.
Ellieseandgirls·
I definitely don't think your the issue! But maybe he thinks it's an issue if his daughter moves it that there may not be any room for a baby to! It's abit odd that he never discussed it with you though seeing as it's your place to! Don't blame yourself though! And so sorry for the miscarriage I can't imagine how that felt for you both! Is he worried it may happen again? Get him to sit with you and speak to you how he feels about it all tell him how you feel make him listen to you! @j974
jodie·
@elliesedanniel, we've spoken about having another baby a long time before he's just decided that his daughter is moving in.. he always says were aren't ready, we have other things to sort out, things to pay off...
why does that suddenly change just because he has decided his daughter is moving in?
I just feel like a really horrible person but I'm the one who is thinking further ahead.. he just decides what he wants and that's that.. literally just needed to have a rant to get it off my chest.
thank you for being so kind and letting me just moan!
Ellieseandgirls·
Is abit unfair to the fact you never had a say in it! That's abit out of order! I think he thinks two is enough in the flat! Cause it seems his minds change cause of the moving of his daughter! Your not a horrible person at all! There's no horrible about it! You'd love another child what's horrid about that?? And no worries :) thus app is for a rant sometimes aha! @j974