girls I need to vent cuz I swear I'm about to blow the fuck up . So my EX husband and I been…
girls I need to vent cuz I swear I'm about to blow the fuck up . So my EX husband and I been seePErateD for two yrs . married for 8 . we have a child together and OF COURSE she's with me . he is in the army we both work full time( I'm a medic ). any who . the past two yrs he hasn't bought anything for our child. only ONCE when he had a gf and my Lil one was visiting him and he took out her "shoppingspree" 5 shirts and 2 pants ..smh . I guess he was trying to play the good dad role any who...
this yrs my child stared school once again and not a penny I have seen from him to help me with school surplies clothes ect ... he tells me oh I got you next paycheck ... mind you he's a E6 promotable E7... Do you know how much he gave me. ..... 50 fucking dollars ...wtffff am I soppousto do with 50 dollars .... I'm just so glad I was able to buy my baby EVERYTHINGGGG but what he did pissed me the fuck off ...sorry rant over .
Autumn·
just saying the army wouldn't look to favorable on that I'd be contacting his commanding officer
sherry S·
Thank god for responsible mom's like you for your child ,,$50...Only in 2 yrs in Unacceptable .yest I took my son who will be an 8th grader now for school shopping that was only the cost of his backpack,, &thanks; for serving in the military ♡☆♡☆
sherry S·
@sparklymama, I agree 100%
Silvana·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (30 нед.)
wow that's so messed up in his part.
Tee·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Have you reported it to his superiors? When my ex husband took the BAH out of our joint account I just called his command and I got immediate results.
mmam91·
Мама дочки-младенца
I'm also in the army, and so is my daughters father. you don't even need to go through the whole court process l, just go to the jag office on post and tell them what is going on. military members last are required to pay child support and its a pretty large amount. it would get taken directly from his checks on the 1st and 15th and go into an account of yours
Bianca·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I'd do what @mmam91 said. You obviously make it work and do what you have to do for her but he has a financial responsibility also, you shouldn't have to do it alone
Alex·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (37 нед.)
So sorry he is such a loser. My father never gave my mom anything towards taking care of me. In the 17 years I lived with her. He used to purposefully come around near the occasional birthday and or holiday and spend a ton of money on me then claim he was broke to my mom after saying he would give her money after we spent the day together.
lorraine·
it sucks when men truly do not care. i have 2 girls 7 and 8. there dad by court isnt even allowed to speak to them. dec 2013 he started paying child support he never bought diapers or anything before that. i sumtyms had to give him gas money to even see them. he went got married had a baby. tried ro avoid child support. so he owed me retro from when i finally applied. he paid for not even 2 yrs str8 its been 8 months now. and hes hiding im sure they suspended his license n probably looking for him. he had another kid with his wife, git an escalade n from what i heard recently went on a trip to disney. we werent together since i was pregnant of our 2nd. since the day they were born he barely saw them and only paid like i said not even 2 yrs n it was taken frm his checks. now in jan my husband wants to adopt them. we dont even want child support hes a horrible person. my dad is a loser 2. owed like 50 grand for me n .y brothers. n my mom took him off it. they wanna make babys n not help. its ridiculous
deleted-user·
go to JAG. my husband and I both are in the Army and I'm sure that they would have something to say about him not giving a hand with your child