question ladies...how can I let my mother in law know if i'd like some space when the baby comes. I talked to my husband about it and he took it personal. I was the one that offered her to live with us which is fine cause I know we're gonna need help and she doesn't have a place to live. it's nothing personal. but she was working so she wasn't at the house all the time. now she's not working and is there from at least 7am to 7pm (if she doesn't sleep over) and when she does sleep over they go to bed at 9. her friend is with her 24/7 so he practically lives with us now too he sleeps on the couch the days they sleep over. me and my husband already barely have time to spend with each other alone and we're newlyweds and just bought the house back in December. we'd have to go out to be alone since we can't really be intimate with each other like how we'd want to with them around and I just feel like some bonding time with just me and my husband and my baby in our house would be nice. not saying kick her out but just not be there as much. what do you ladies think?? She sleeps at her friends half the week but just to sleep though. she doesn't hang out over there. she has no hobbies. and the only time she's out the house is to grocery shop. I feel itd be different if she had hobbies or worked but she doesn't. I don't want to be smothered with a newborn that's all. let me know what y'all think.
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I don't think that's unreasonable. that would drive me crazy having my MIL around 24/7 or shoot even my own mother around that often. I would keep pushing for it, its not wrong for you to want bonding time with your family
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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Dad's FB Video!!
Did anyone see that video a dad posted on his daughters FB page? He saw a post she made where she bashed her parents and cursed them, called them lazy and told them they should pay her for stuff she did around the house... So he called her out on it and put the video on her page!! Sorry if I missed a post already about this already, but I just saw the video and IT WAS AWESOME!!! Hahahhaa!
So i just had to fall off with my sister for the simple fact me n my baby father got into a disagreement so the first thing he does is run over to my sisters house which i dont understand he always knocking on her door tho out of respect for me my sister should not allow him in her house especially if hes beening disrespectful to me. So its 12:33 am and hes over her house mind u she dates his friend which hes not round at moment.. Shes walking around with her draws out all the time what respect ...
@breezy1993, thanks. I love her to death and she's so helpful around the house. I just don't want her to take it personal.