late night thoughts on our new found independence. This is the first time we've had our own place . We've lived with roommates for most of our marriage . So super excited about that or should I say was ..
His job now has him working 530 pm to 830am Monday though Sunday morning . Thanks to losing our roommate to a other rail yard .
* yes the money is great and we are super close to my due date so the added funds is awesome . I keep reminding myself of the positive to him working this much *
we spent the day reorganizing things and putting baby stuff that came built where it goes before he went to work . He even ordered me Chinese food a other meal I ate alone . Been doing that more and more each week . At 34 weeks I am extremely exhausted and now feeling emotional detached from my marriage .
He moved my school comp to the living room * which he turned into a gaming computer * He got hurt tonight at work and sent home Saturdays are slow anyways and he needed a one day rest . He came home about 11pm ate his half of dinner and has been seating in the living room on that darn comp sense .
like I stated I am feeling like we are emotional detached from our marriage . Even the dog is done waiting for him to come to bed . I asked him to come sleep with me * we have a thousand things to do today pay bills , take the dog to his therapy go shopping for the house ect* he snapped at me I will when I decide. His been on that comp from 6 hours now .
End to my marriage to a human and beginning of my marriage to a vegetable
end of my rant
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@gyngee, he been like this forever ..He doesn't help cook or clean but he can spend hours on his game
@gyngee, What u said really hit home with me. My husband works nights @hdt91 it's really hard. In the mornings he drinks a couple beers to unwind and latley I feel like I'm emotionally unattached too makes me so upset when he dont want to come back to bed with me. I have trouble remembering that at 6 am it's his evening time.
He just needs a little time to destress and unwind. Let him have his space and alone time and you do the same. Stock up on all the things you won't get to do after baby comes now! Your sanity will thank you for it! Your husband loves you, he'll come back around, but for now, he works hard let him unwind. @hdt91
I'm not sure of your exact situation, my husband works 12h days, most weeks are 7 days so he has very little free time to cook or clean. The free time he does have, usually is family time. Maybe try to work out a compromise with him. Have him spend a few hours of free time as family time, then give him his space for games or even see if he's willing to play with you. As much as we miss our men, they do work hard and deserve some time to zone out, even if that means we're alone more than we would like. If he spends absolutely no time with you, you need to sit him down so he gets his priorities straight. Life is too short to spend it waiting on a man who can't even spare you a moment of his time! @hdt91