For it being my first time having a child I'd like my mom to be in the delivery room with me as well as the fiancé of course! I told him that at dinner an he completely flips his shit got up from the table an said I'm done. & says he doesn't want to hear anything else from me tonight or talk to me. Claims I couldn't even do that one thing he asks. That's a hard thing to ask. Smh I don't know what to do. He said he put up with my stuff for these whole 9 months an I can't even do that but he didn't carry her for 9 months, go through pain, be scared 90% of the pregnancy cuz you didn't know if you'd loose your child or not or constantly worrying if the child was healthy, & he damn for sure ain't about to have a child come out of him tomorrow I am. So I don't see the big deal of having my mom in there with us. Smh how do I handle this?!? 😔😢
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If your mom will help you relax & stay calm, she should be in there. I won't let mine in the room because she's a nervous wreck (literally has given my address out to strangers over FB TWICE because she couldn't reach me for half an hour while I took a bath) & I know I won't be able to relax with her there. My husband is the calmest person I have ever met, even during my multiple pregnancy complications & our trip to L&D tonight thinking it was time, so I know he's all I'll need to keep calm & focused in the delivery room. While it's important that your fiance feel welcome & a major part of the whole experience, you're the one who has to go through the roller coaster & you need to make sure you have the right people in there to get you through it. Good luck!
Honestly, you want your mom there for a reason. He's not a woman and will not understand. Don't let him win this one because you'll regret it later. You want your mom there for a reason, let it happen. Good luck, my love!
You only get one mom and if you want to share that moment with her he should understand... My mom passed away I wish she could be there for me during my labor and birth....
Let him pitch a fit and act like a spoiled child who just got told no. That's what he sounds like.
you pick your support team. you are pushing a baby out of your body. his response to that is disgusting.
Your birth, your right to choose. There's no right or wrong answer. Despite him being the father, staff can remove him from the room if you don't want him there.
With that said, if my husband wanted just us two....i would want to respect that because it IS an intimate moment. Maybe she can be there during labor and when its time to push she can wait outside
i had just my bf in the room but my mom was in the room up until it was time to push