I don't plan on having anymore children after this. I know I'm 30 probably shouldn't have anymore . But I can't seem not to get so irritated when people ask me if I'm getting a tubaligation after this one. It irritates the fuck out of me. My husband and I work ourselves to death taking care of the two we have. I have never asked anyone for help, not even to babysit. If you don't see one of kids with me it because they're with my husband. I get up everyday and go to work to make sure my kids are provided for. I really don't see what the issue is. I think it's my age. Anyone else been asked about getting an tubaligation?
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@babyleon, I really dislike when people have something negative to say when someone announce that they are pregnant. My sister just had her fourth and she kept it from everyone because she didn't want people to judge her. It broke my heart, I felt so bad for. No matter the situation, caring a child is a blessing and we shouldn't feel ashamed about it.
@jamie_and_donovan, My sister just got it done. I applaud you ladies for doing. It's a big decision and I'm just not ready to do it.
never been asked that but I'm on my 4th & yes it's hard at times but I love them & couldn't imagine life without them... But I dont like it when I announce I'm pregnant & instead of excitement, I get the "again???" comments or I've been told "must be something in the water" 😒😲🖕
@shaylamookey04, @lyds next time some asks u if ur gonna get ur tubes tied tell them you'll tie their kneecaps together when you break them 🙃🙃🙃 lmfaooooo
I'm 23 and I'm getting my tubes tied after this pregnancy. Everyone always gives me weird looks when I tell them I no longer want children after this :/ but it is no one's business to why or why not I'm getting it done. Even nurses at the hospital give me weird ass looks because I want it done
@lyds, when I telling them I'm not getting it they look at me like I'm crazy. Like you said it's our choice and if I plan to have 3 more that's my business.
@bria, Thanks love. Sometimes I feel so insulted. It's not like any of them helps with my kids or that I need any help from anyone.
🙋 omg I hate it, n then others say I'm end up having another after this one cuz I'm just do birth control. like wtf does it matter what I plan to do?? ppl just like to get under my skin
Girl I hope you tell them to shove it up their ass !!! First of all, why the fuck is it any of their business ?? Secondly mama there's nothing wrong w being over 30 if you're healthy !! I'm my moms only child she had me at 34 years old and I've been healthy as a horse since the day I was born. I can't believe people these days. That's ridiculous
TMI Moment: I have yeast infections after all antibiotics they put me on. An it's getting very irritating. My next appointment not till 9/5 and I don't have ride to hospital. Any suggests ?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
The life of having a man that don't mind cleaning going out to get you what ever you need an want an take care the kids on a daily basis OMG I couldn't ask for more!! My man is not perfect but he's good enough for me. #feelingsleepy #nowready #tocuddle glad I don't have to clean 🙌 💛 🙌
What birth controls have worked flawlessly for you?... I don't want anymore kids after my daughter but I don't want to tie my tubes and I am not going to become a born again virgin so I want your best recommendations ladies! Thanks in advance :)
Wow, I am 34 and having my first.