Anyone ever felt like because you got pregnant your family is trying to out due you by having kids…

no. not at all. I was furious when my sister announced 2 days after me that she was pregnant. I ended up with a tubal, and she went on to have hers full term. it was devestating

you know how they feel . may be the need to find happiness and stress in their life

I'm sorry for your loss. and it's like my sister that has my 5 yr old nephew said she was going to get married in December. then when my baby shower got set for October 8th she moved her wedding to October 1st.

you don't *

@1xmom, you feel like it's your time to shine. I get it. but I think the feelings you have come with the territory when you have siblings...lol

having a baby at a early stage in a realationship never leads to a happy ending

I was with the biological father for a year before I got pregnant and it wasn't planned. my brother and sister haven't even known their significant others for a year. my brother and his girlfriend met in January and got pregnant in late March or early April.. my sister met her boyfriend and immediately started dating him. It takes time to get to know someone. even after a year I didn't know my baby's father. I didn't know that he would leave right after I got pregnant. I didn't know that he was schizophrenic. My sister' ha been in many many abusive relationships. and my brother, this is his first girlfriend ever. so yeah maybe they are trying to find their happiness but having a baby isn't going to just make you happy. Briing a baby into this world takes more responsibility than they think trust me I have asked them both and they literally both think that it's easy you just feed them and clothe them and make sure they get an education. the don't realize it takes time, patience, love and nurturing, and a lot more than just the basic food water shelter clothing and education to raise a child

No it's not messes up. I would probably be annoyed to.

@xxmom, girl your right! I'm sorry about that. But your so right 💯🙌🏼 some ppl don't realize what's it like to have kids.

I have 4 siblings and I'm the only one with kids lol.

decideing to have a kid is a BIG decision both partners have to agree,sometimes it's not how long been together but how well you two know each other ..live alone with the person in your own place for a while and then decide that's my thought on it ... I understand how you feel ! When i found out I was having a baby too I got some family together and told them all at the same time and my sister would give me this look of hate but pretend to be nice but at the same time talk trash saying stuff like "having a baby will change you life you will regrate it " or "your not ready ! ... I think for 4 years is enough time for me to decide what I want in life with a man who I lived for 4 years alone with no one . anyways it ends up that my sister a person who didn't want to have another kid with her boyfriend ended up pregnant and blames the fact she drinks

I have 3 sibilings and I'm the one with kids in my family.... but right after I had my second son my SIL decided she would get her 16 year old self pregnant with her new bf. then my husband and I very unexpectedly got pregnant again and now his cousin is pregnant at the same time with her new bf. my problem lies with my in laws. lucky for me though I don't have to worry about this situation happening again after this one. number 3 and last for me @1xmom

well me and my sister got pregnant 2 times around the same time.... its no such thing as competition when your blessed with kids ..... my sister lost her twins 1 time. she found out this time in december she was pregnant i found out in march that i was... and people was saying i did it because sje was... but thats a big lie lmao i have a 3 year old already... ive cursed ppl out for saying that

me and my sister were pregnant together with my second one but she didn't want to be pregnant cried and freaked lol and she had twins lol but now she loves them and don't regret getting pregnant it made her grow up. maybe they will grow up when there babies get here too.

my hubby's friend was making shitty ass remarks about me being pregnant (because that's the kind if person he is) and then this friends wife looks me dead in the eye and says "i might as well get knocked up too.. seems like I'm the only one that doesn't have a kid" i was like 😠😠😠 they have a horrible relationship and are either high or drunk and because we did something now she wants to do something. I'm not usually a petty person but damn this bitch grinds my gears

exactly how it is with my siblings