My fiancé wants to take out a loan to get him a new phone. Meanwhile I'm chilling with a cracked…

Tell him how you feel.

@flower_princess, unfortunately I did. I told him not too earlier. As he went and bought himself 2 new pairs of shoes this week and more clothes >.<. I'm so frugal I want my daughter to have more so I hardly buy for me.

Some guys don't like to see that they're a parent now, their child comes before anything! Once the baby is here and he notices that the baby runs through diapers like nothing he will wish he didn't buy new shoes or clothes. When he sees that the baby will outgrow her clothes in months he will wish he had saved up for her... Some people need a reality check, and once the baby is here, he will get his. I know how you feel because I went through the same when I was pregnant, but now he knows that babies are expensive..

@flower_princess, I hope so because I feel like punching him in the head. I even said your expensive and he looked at me and said sorry.then went and called about the phone. Even though his phone works perfectly fine

my hubby wants to take me to buy some clothes tomorrow but I told him no that we need to get the rest of the baby stuff my kids come first he told me not to worry that he will have everything he needs before he is born

but he shouldn't be like that new born baby's need a lot of things hopefully he starts to understand that he's baby comes first

@baby26, he came to his senses this morning at 5 am.I just want him to prioritize better. You know ?

of course

@royalty, I went through it, now my hubby puts our son before himself