The closer my due date becomes the more nervous I get to become a mother of two. What if my son doesn't think I love him…
The closer my due date becomes the more nervous I get to become a mother of two. What if my son doesn't think I love him due to everything a new born needs.
Steph·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (13 нед.)
I was just thinking about that. Like I'm nervous because my daughter is 3 and I'm afraid she won't comprehend that she's not an only child anymore and she'll have to share our attention.
Samantha·
Мама сына (1 год)
Exactly. My sons one now and will be 1 and a half when his sister comes. And with him so little idk if he'll understand why I'm not playing with him as much. 😔 I don't want either of my kids to feel unwanted or unloved
Steph·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (13 нед.)
@growingmamaof2, well I wish you luck! You're quite a ways ahead of me in your pregnancy so when I'm getting ready for labor and you're adjusting to having two, let me know how it's going so I can prepare! 😂
Samantha·
Мама сына (1 год)
Lol I will! Then you'll have a heads up lol
Alexandria·
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My aunt just had twins, she already has three other kids. And they don't let any of there kids feel lesser than the other. Just remember when you're getting new things for the baby to pick up something special for your other kid. When everyone meets your new baby make sure you're giving the other one attention as well. Atleast you are able to realize that it is a possibility ahead of time so you can put in the extra effort to make them feel loved. My aunt made sure they new how important they are to the baby as the older sibling. Make them your little helper
Samantha·
Мама сына (1 год)
I always by him stuff when we get the baby stuff but I'm more worried when I'm in the hospital for two days and away from him and come home with another and how he'll adjust. Cuz I won't be able to move around good for a week due to labor and I'll be up all hours breast feeding. I'm just nervous on how he'll take it
missing277user·
Alex gave some really good advice 👌🏼