I am a firm believer in "if you want it, go and get it"... Everything I have, is everything I have earned. It wasn't handed to me. I understand struggle, it happens. I always try to help people out that I KNOW would help me out if need be. But for somebody to hang their head and beg for shit.. it literally disgusts me.
girl, that's the worst @ella1007 ! my sister is asking me for stuff from my son since she's pregnant now, but at least she's using her money wisely. she's paying rent, her car payment, groceries, other necessities and is working also. she has her priorities straight and she's only 19!
@ginnalynn, amen!!! I have a personal friend asking to have my baby stuff which I'm still using yet she goes out and blows money on stupid stuff like a new phone or eating out at expensive places. So damn annoying!!
I didn't either but I guess plp had their panties up in a bunch . and got reported several times bc I stated my opinion . it's like I said b4 when my post got deleted . we allll going thru something in life and we all have a ruff patch but how we face the situación is up to us and I choose to face my situación different regardless of my past and what I been thru . but no plp wanna cry give a sob story then beg . I'm honestly done and just block them . there's no self respect, self love nor encouragement. you give them advice and you're the bad one bc you're not crying right along with them that's not of any help and giving you shit is not of any help either . all I'm doing is your job for you and feeling sorry for you ...what kind of reputation is that... where that powerful ,brave , in dependent women inside of you ... @babyeaston191
@myramercado, GIRL YES SMH 😒 I'll repost if it does. 😂 I didn't say any names, no screen shots.. so it shouldn't get deleted. That would be completely pathetic if it did. I'm just stating my opinion. ☺
👏👏👏👏👏 hopefully your post won't get deleted and reported like mines lol . I'm so done with beggars in here .
@ginnalynn, I don't mind to help someone if they are trying but at the same time I don't want to give away my baby stuff. For 1 I'm a ftm and sentimental and 2. I may have a 2nd kid at some point so I don't want to get rid of everything. My favorite is when I see chicks on here saying they are TTC but can't afford a pregnancy test. Like hello if you can't afford a test you for sure can't afford a baby!