Really y'all don't have sex anymore? That's awful. And damn. Idk maybe try something new to try to reunite the flame. Or maybe it's just a phase 😂 @ariliyahzihmommy3

I'm not up for my 6 week PP until this Friday plus I feel like the spark has died in these 8.5 years with 3 kids😦 I'm to the point I feel like we roommates girl.

Ohh laws you better get that 😂😂😂😂 @ariliyahzihmommy3 just take it 😂

Wish i could😂😂😂....it's been since the Ice Age that I've gotten any "good" 🍆🍑💦💦.

No I get it completely. But honestly if you would have waited it might not have changed. And yes he should be so happy there not many women that hold it down like you did. And he should give you credit. And I would think being away he would want to spend as much time with her a possible. And he should be proud of you guys. And the crazy thing is you can't fix something if someone isn't willing listen and try to fix it! I hope he comes around soon. @breloya and I understand your just putting your daughter first Bc it's not abt you any more.

I wish I had of waited. I never wanted to be divorced. That's why I've been sticking through all of the bad stuff. But if you aren't going to treat me and your daughter right, I'm out. Can't just try and be present in the good times. He already missed the hard parts. He should be proud of the little lady she's become while he was away. Proud of her and proud of me for doing it all alone. I'm more sorry for him if he doesn't see, truly see how awesome he has it. You know how many women cheat and do so many horrible things while their husband is deployed ? Yet, he had one who 100% stayed faithful and honest to him, who took care of his child, raised em, took care of the bills and all that stuff. Like its my job as a mom to do that, but still. It will be his loss if he keeps on.

Exactly that's why when we found out we were pregnant. And we wanted to get married he kept asking like let's do it. Let's no wait. I said no I wanna wait to see how you are as a dad. Bc men change sometimes when they have babies and I didn't wanna marry him if he did. I know it's not the same as you. You guys were married before her. But that's so sad Bc how could you not be interested in her Bc she is the cutest thing. And he missed the sleepless nights. And she can say dada and walk and play.. Like I don't get it. That's so sad that he is uninterested. I'm sorry he being like that. @breloya

Uninterested. I've been depressed to the point I had to see a psychologist and therapist, so I know the signs of depression. He just isn't interested in is. Exactly!! It's not a cakewalk like many men expect. It's not all fun and games.

Does he seem depressed or just uninterested ? N hell yeah you guys will be fine regardless Bc she has you n your a hell of a mother. !! @breloya but that's weird that when he was gone he couldn't wait to get home. Maybe he came home n was like this isn't what he expected having a kid was like idk. 🤔

He sits on his phone when he's home, lays around, or just drinks. And she wasn't planned. And he acted like he missed us a whole lot. Like I missed him. I counted down the days and all I ever talked about was when he was coming back. If he wants to act an ass or like he doesn't want anything to do with us, I will gladly go elsewhere. Shit, Payton will be loved and taken care of regardless. I try to involve him in everything as is.

Damn. That's weird. What he do when he home ? Did y'all plan her ? Like before he left was he excited for her to come? @breloya

He doesn't really have anything to do with her either. But he'll get mad if I tell him he's a bad husband or father. Yet he isn't doing anything to help that change. I'm still doing it on my own pretty much.

Really ? That's so weird to act. Is he good pay ? Like he plays with her. You would think when he got home he would be all over you Bc he missed you. @breloya

He never wants to talk about anything. He just brushes everything off, says nu uh, or laughs if I'm upset. He doesn't act like he wants to be married anymore. He was gone for 8 months and now he's a different person. Some men realize just how much they missed the single life when they're away.

I guess maybe. Have you talked to him. Does he feel the same way ?he was gone for long right ? @breloya