Would it be totally disrespectful if I told my parents (whom I'm staying with) that I refuse to go through with the custody/child support battle? (We're slowly getting back together). It's what they want. They help so much but he's doing everything for our daughter, providing for her and helping me despite living an hour away from us but they just hate his guts and are just nasty to him. I want us to work things as parents and not deal with the court. My parents want to act like parents to our daughter instead of letting us handle things until we can move forward and try to get our own place. How should I go about telling them?
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Not disrespectful at all! I would definitely get a notarized agreement with him, stating what money he is giving you or what he will be providing for your daughter and how often. Just to be safe, because unfortunately people switch up, but a legal document won't.
tell them your giving him one last chance to do what he needs to do! & you believe he'll do his best once he gets on his feet & the hang of it & got rather not stress yourself or cause conflict with this child support stuff you rather you two as your baby's parents to settle it the right way !co parenting
@sweetpea_nut, it is for sure up to you! You are the parent. I wouldn't let them start controlling things.
Not at all! I think it's very smart and mature too try things out. Some people change after a baby and he might very well could be one. So if you want too give him a chances, go for it. Don't do child support if it's not necessary . Too me honestly it's a last resort