Wtf I would be mad honestly ...

@fun ag918,

Woah that was a lot! But totally. I mean if I had a kid and the father and I agreed that I would raise is with my guy, then I wouldn't go after him later and yes I would still keep him updated. Some people are evil; some people aren't. I agree 100% with you tho, you can never take this situation too lightly. I never know with anyone these days. Thanks for the tips dolls !

Jealousy no cautiousness as to her motives for the agreement yes

Oh ok so if your boyfriend and the mother agreed that the mother and her mate shall raise the child then my only advice is he needs to legalize this agreement so it doesn't come back to bite you all in the ass later. And since the child won't be a part of your day to day then I wouldn't worry about it ESP if he really wants to not be involved now if he wants to be involved and feels forced not to be then that's another story. I personally as a spouse wouldn't be ok with my man not being involved in the child's life ESP if the mom still wants to update him on the child it's all or nothing why update me on a child you don't want to know I'm the father? That to me would say she will come back later to make him pay child support for a kid he isn't on the birth certificate nor has she allowed to be in the baby life. Careful she may have underlying motives like let me keep proof that he is updated about the child so when I go get child support he can't say he knew nothing of the child. Maybe I just over analyze things lol

The more I talk about it, the more I realize that I shouldn't be jealous. @ginag918 @justtkristin

@ginag918,

Special circumstances: her boyfriend wants to raise it as his own and they don't want her to know he's the father. It's totally weird and screwed up. @Gina g918 so I guess it's like she's not even his kid, but the girl still keeps him updated on her life. She's just his blood but he won't be raising her. They all decided that.

It's normal because now things you would think we're your first he may experience with the baby he just learned about but I would say it's a blessing in disguise because your baby will have an older sibling and you don't have to rush to have another to get a playmate lol hopefully everyone can be mature and do what's best for the babies that are involved

I wish I could be on the same page with you about the pregnancy hormones but I don't really have them haha. Aww don't cry. Things will work out when they need to be. Focus on your family and things will fall into place if need me. :) you are more than welcome girl. I wish you the best of luck with your pregnancy and family. Don't stress to much, you want a healthy good pregnancy! :) ❤️👏🏻👶🏻

I don't know if it's the pregnancy hormones of not, but that made me cry! Thank you so much for taking the time to write that! That is exactly what I needed to hear 💞 @justtkristin

You shouldn't be jealous. If he was with her before y'all then can't really do anything about that. The feeling of jealousy is probably running through you but this baby is yalls. Your first. As long as he loves you and is there for the baby and you just the same that's all that should matter. :) Y'all are starting the family. Be happy for what is and don't worry about the other girl. If the maturity level is there then you will be blessed and just take it day by day and focus on you what's happening with your baby for now. :) good luck girl!!