yea because ppl arr crazy now days I would snap if something happened to my kids

@jennatess, I would meet her and she could possibly see the baby while I'm around but like @midwestgirl16 said I wouldn't just let her be with my son by herself even if he's there.

no I wouldn't personally I dont trust everyone around my child and he isn't married to her so no he has to see baby alone.

@mamabear041, I would tell him "when you've hit 3-4 months together, you come back to me and tell me if this is serious. If this is someone you could see spending the rest of your life with. If so. Then I'd love to meet her and go forward with her meeting our child."

@kambam, @jennatess I agree with you both. I don't want her to be around my newborn if they've only been dating for a little over a month. I think I will wait until they are together longer.

I wouldn't personally. its just weird and family should stay family. if he wants to see baby it should be solo until he decides to marry. then thats different.

I would be okay with it, only after they've been together for a few months, it was serious, and after I met her. I figure, it's so beneficial to approve of the new person, and establish a good relationship with them.

For a couple of months. @allyk.xmommy

how long have they been together. I wouldn't allow him introducing the baby unless it's a serious relationship