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Morgan
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I have a really embarrassing and personal question but is it normal not to be able to produce any fluids when you want…

I have a really embarrassing and personal question but is it normal not to be able to produce any fluids when you want some "adult time"? I've been trying for a few weeks with my boyfriend but I can't seem to get wet anymore and I don't like using lube. I don't know what to do anymore. It's very depressing at times because I want to but my body says otherwise.

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aiellomorgan

Morgan

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Thank you everybody. It's always a shitty feeling when you just want to enjoy yourself with your man and you feel like your in the mood but your body is telling you otherwise. I'm going to say it's probably just hormones but I hope it gets better soon before the baby is here.

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Lucia Cordero

Мама сына (4 года), беременна (35 нед.)

it's normal.. either you can be super dry or super wet.. it's a good excuse to get pleasure without having to go through the pain first 😄

lovelymommylumps

Bianca

Мама двоих (10 лет, 12 лет), ждёт третьего

I use coconut oil though for literally everything though.. If anything is ever wrong just put coconut oil on it 😅

dang_dridri

Adrianna

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@aiellomorgan, I felt bad too at the time. It'll get better though. Your body may just need a break if y'all have sex often.

lovelymommylumps

Bianca

Мама двоих (10 лет, 12 лет), ждёт третьего

Coconut oil is my saviour too @sam.g

aiellomorgan

Morgan

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Agreed @dang_dridri and we've tried that and nothing. I feel really bad about it. 😟

sam.g

Sam G.

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Same here....dry as the desert down there. Coconut oil works well for us

dang_dridri

Adrianna

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Yep, it happened to me for a while too. It takes us a while longer to get into it than men. He just needs to try spending a little more time "warming you up". like more oral, fingering, whatever y'all get started. Lol

aiellomorgan

Morgan

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we've tried everything @vanessarazo and nothing is working 😞

vanessarazo

Vanessa

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have you tried maybe different positions? or foreplay?

aiellomorgan

Morgan

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It's absolutely terrible @maleahsmommy. It's starting to bother me more then it should.

maleahsmommy

Mariah

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That's happened to me. I think it's hormones

I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older…

I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!