I have a really embarrassing and personal question but is it normal not to be able to produce any fluids when you want some "adult time"? I've been trying for a few weeks with my boyfriend but I can't seem to get wet anymore and I don't like using lube. I don't know what to do anymore. It's very depressing at times because I want to but my body says otherwise.
it's normal.. either you can be super dry or super wet.. it's a good excuse to get pleasure without having to go through the pain first 😄
I use coconut oil though for literally everything though.. If anything is ever wrong just put coconut oil on it 😅
@aiellomorgan, I felt bad too at the time. It'll get better though. Your body may just need a break if y'all have sex often.
Coconut oil is my saviour too @sam.g
Agreed @dang_dridri and we've tried that and nothing. I feel really bad about it. 😟
Same here....dry as the desert down there. Coconut oil works well for us
Yep, it happened to me for a while too. It takes us a while longer to get into it than men. He just needs to try spending a little more time "warming you up". like more oral, fingering, whatever y'all get started. Lol
we've tried everything @vanessarazo and nothing is working 😞
It's absolutely terrible @maleahsmommy. It's starting to bother me more then it should.
What birth controls have worked flawlessly for you?... I don't want anymore kids after my daughter but I don't want to tie my tubes and I am not going to become a born again virgin so I want your best recommendations ladies! Thanks in advance :)
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
so let's conversate how many kids does everyone have and do they want anymore I have 3 and no I don't want anymore
went on my hospital tour today where I will deliever. I don't want to deliver there anymore :\ & I'm due sept. 22.
Thank you everybody. It's always a shitty feeling when you just want to enjoy yourself with your man and you feel like your in the mood but your body is telling you otherwise. I'm going to say it's probably just hormones but I hope it gets better soon before the baby is here.