I have a really embarrassing and personal question but is it normal not to be able to produce any fluids when you want some "adult time"? I've been trying for a few weeks with my boyfriend but I can't seem to get wet anymore and I don't like using lube. I don't know what to do anymore. It's very depressing at times because I want to but my body says otherwise.
it's normal.. either you can be super dry or super wet.. it's a good excuse to get pleasure without having to go through the pain first 😄
I use coconut oil though for literally everything though.. If anything is ever wrong just put coconut oil on it 😅
@aiellomorgan, I felt bad too at the time. It'll get better though. Your body may just need a break if y'all have sex often.
Coconut oil is my saviour too @sam.g
Agreed @dang_dridri and we've tried that and nothing. I feel really bad about it. 😟
Same here....dry as the desert down there. Coconut oil works well for us
Yep, it happened to me for a while too. It takes us a while longer to get into it than men. He just needs to try spending a little more time "warming you up". like more oral, fingering, whatever y'all get started. Lol
we've tried everything @vanessarazo and nothing is working 😞
It's absolutely terrible @maleahsmommy. It's starting to bother me more then it should.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Thank you everybody. It's always a shitty feeling when you just want to enjoy yourself with your man and you feel like your in the mood but your body is telling you otherwise. I'm going to say it's probably just hormones but I hope it gets better soon before the baby is here.