I have a really embarrassing and personal question but is it normal not to be able to produce any fluids when you want some "adult time"? I've been trying for a few weeks with my boyfriend but I can't seem to get wet anymore and I don't like using lube. I don't know what to do anymore. It's very depressing at times because I want to but my body says otherwise.
it's normal.. either you can be super dry or super wet.. it's a good excuse to get pleasure without having to go through the pain first 😄
I use coconut oil though for literally everything though.. If anything is ever wrong just put coconut oil on it 😅
@aiellomorgan, I felt bad too at the time. It'll get better though. Your body may just need a break if y'all have sex often.
Agreed @dang_dridri and we've tried that and nothing. I feel really bad about it. 😟
Same here....dry as the desert down there. Coconut oil works well for us
Yep, it happened to me for a while too. It takes us a while longer to get into it than men. He just needs to try spending a little more time "warming you up". like more oral, fingering, whatever y'all get started. Lol
It's absolutely terrible @maleahsmommy. It's starting to bother me more then it should.
Thank you everybody. It's always a shitty feeling when you just want to enjoy yourself with your man and you feel like your in the mood but your body is telling you otherwise. I'm going to say it's probably just hormones but I hope it gets better soon before the baby is here.