Ugh is it possible to hate people your own age so much?! I literally was just told I'm no fun, I'm awkward and I'm a…
Ugh is it possible to hate people your own age so much?! I literally was just told I'm no fun, I'm awkward and I'm a bitch because I'm sober a d my hormones make me a bitch. Then they proceeded to argue with me about stupid shit and telling me I should have got my tubes tied or gotten a abortion. I'm so sick of this! why can't I find people my own age that are mature enough. Drinking alcohol and smoking or snorting or whatever these "friends" of mine so to be fun is not what life is about. Grow up! I'm so freaking mad!! Like yes I'm 20 and gonna have my second kid, and you may not like my husband because he agrees with me and doesn't condone being drunk 24/7 but do not say stupid shit like that to me! I always liked staying in, watching Netflix and sipping wine. I still do that minus the sipping wine (now it's sparkling grape juice lol). sigh, can't I have one friend my age that isn't addicted or obsessed with drinking and taking drugs 😣😣😣
Agastina·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (32 нед.)
Story of my life, girl! Pregnancy really shows you who your true friends are and helped me a ton in realizing who I don't want in my life!
Rosie·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)
@agastinamarie I'm seeing that more and more. I mean I lost almost everyone when I had my son but had faith in those that stayed. now those that stayed just bounced cuz they're more into drugs then they were before. I'm completely friendless now... well not totally I have my son and my husband but I don't want to go on rants about how hot Dean from supernatural is with my husband per say lol. I'm just so done with people
Agastina·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (32 нед.)
Girl, I totally get it! It's pretty much just me, my husband and my step son these days with one friend who's still around when she's not too busy doing her own thing! It's rough. I've been thinking about joining a local moms group or something though. I need more like-minded friends who understand being married and having kids!
Keneesha·
Completely how I feel. I'm 19 having my second munchkin and all anyone my age is the same.
Rosie·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)
@agastinamarie that's a good idea. I need more like minded friends too. I'm sick of being told "why can't you go clubbing, your husband can watch your kid" like no that's not how marriage works. I can't just drop it all on him so I can party till 6 am. sigh
Rosie·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)
@ilovemykids24 pretty much. all my friends are between 19 and 21. and they're all the same and it bothers me no one respects my life and life decisions.
Agastina·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (32 нед.)
Yeah it's hard for single people to realize that your life changes when you get married. It's not just you anymore, you have a partner who you have to consider at all times. Not to mention a partner who you'd rather be at home in bed with rather than being at the club! They'll get it one day when they go through it.. For now, you've just got to accept the fact that maturing early just makes you realize the kind of friends you want and need in your life earlier too. It's hard but I'm encouraged that better will come! You should be too!
Rosie·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)
@agastinamarie thanks hun. I try. my depression gets me some time and then I just totally lose my temper lol. but I try hard hoping better will come
Rosie·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)
@alana_sunshine, I was never really the type to anyway. while they made plans to club when we were single I made plans for movie nights at home with junk food and pillow forts lol. I don't see how they think that would change with age or kids. if anything I love pillow forts and movies even more and do it all the time with my two year old. they always knew I was like that. occasionally I'd go out but I'd always be the responsible one keeping everyone safe. like before I was pregnant I was sober and they said I had the energy of a tiny hyper puppy. now nothings change except a bun in the oven and suddenly I'm boring because I for sure can't drink no matter how much they try to get me to. ugh it's so irritating lol
Akaila·
Мама сына-младенца
I'm also 20, and when I got pregnant I lost all my friends because I wouldn't go out to club and drink /smoke with them .... It's like most Brooklyn people just dont understand Wat it's like to just want to be chill
Rosie·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)
@romesmommy that's true and I started noticing that more. like let's just relax and do something chill.
Akaila·
Мама сына-младенца
Exactly, it's mostly because you're not able to do the things they want you to do anymore so they get upset which is very selfish it's so much other things that you can do that doesn't involve getting drunk or high
Rosie·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)
@romesmommy I think my "friends" are straight up super douches. I at one point offered to be the designated driver. I was totally ok with just dancing and having fun and they're like "no you're pregnant, dont come". i was like pshh ok fine
Akaila·
Мама сына-младенца
I honestly would just say fuck them it's plenty of like minded people in the world that like to do the same things you do and have kids or are expecting one you just gotta put yourself out there to find them 💁🏽
Noemí 🌻 ·
Totally agree with you. After becoming a mother all my so to be called "friends" went M.I.A but when I post a picture of my daughter or see her they act like we're bestfriend. I've learned to ignore them and know that my bestfriend is my husband and now my daughter. Friends come and go, just ignore em they're definitely not "friends". They're the type of peopke who only there when theirs alcohol and money.