my daughters dad (who isn't around much maybe 2 days a month) dosnt agree i should change her babysitter my daughter is almost 4 months old yes i get babys do good with things staying the same. but her babysitter im just not comfortable with her its been a month. and theres something off! my daughter has come home dirty (more than once) my bff (her mom watches my daughter) has said that one time her 10 yr old bro was watching her alone in the house for 3 hrs. another time she let ally sleep on her tummy in her bouncer!! its becoming a safety thing more than anything else!! ive already found a few people i can afford and im letting her sitter now know that her soon (week or 2) she'll no longer be watching her. but her dad is upset im changing her sitter. but i have a really bad feeling about leving her with her current sitter. am i wrong?