Considering Adoption is wonderful and a selfless act. If I had never been adopted i would have never had the life that i did. I was afforded so many opportunities that I wouldn't have before adoption, and have the best adoptive parents. It is the single best thing to ever happen to me

typo u are stronger than u know

@averysmommy16, i am 37yrs old now so I speak from my own experiences s had my 1st son at age 16. graduated hs early with diploma, had 2 jobs,had my own place that I rented. His father and I were 16,he was abusive ,worked but always felt alone.We were married at 18&divorced; at 21.long story short.My 2nd son is 7yrs apart ,had him at 24 yrs old with a great man,great father .I 've had to make many sacrifices in my life for my sons,at times ..not that I regret it but. wasn't easy.I'm 37yrs old and still with my 2nds son father we planned this pregnancy for my 3rd son due in December. I 've been lucky to have same career as a Professional Pet Groomer since I was 19yrs old. so it's 18yrs in same career. My oldest is in his 2nd yr of college to see his accomplishments makes me so proud and my other son will be an 8th grader.****** It's Your Decision no one knows your pain or sacrifices do what you need to do to give the baby the best you can .maybe you should talk to a Professional about this sensitive, delicate situation.I Always Believe Women are stronger than u ever believe I are ♡♡♡♡

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because I didn't want anymore kids. but birth control doesn't work on me. I had the IUD in and ended up pregnant and had a miscarriage. I'm getting my tubes tied after this baby since I'm finally old enough.

If you really are considering adoption I think you would need to start working on the proceedings now to ensure your child gets a good and loving home right away. Going and filing the paperwork before she gets here might also give you the courage to deal with or rethink your decision. I hope alll goes well for you and baby girl

@averysmommy16, when she get here in your arms I'm certain your feelings would immediately change. I agree with @pebblestone

Don't make any decisions right now . You're hurt n on top of that your hormonal :) like all of us. Just chill out and think about what's important (not him) . Do some research on your options . Fuck him since he's out the picture it's not about him anymore. Bye!

no I don't think they will.

Do you think your thoughts will change after having her?

idk but whatever you going through your the only one have to deal with your decision in the future just make sure your mind is clear and you can live with it that child will look for you when their older and wanna know why you made that decision I hope you can make a choice for yourself without having any regrets.. I thought about it with my first child BC her father didn't want any dealings but 6yrs later I'm making it i thought i couldnt do it but with God i was and am able to just really think about it praying for you @averysmommy16

thanks guys I just don't really know what to do and I don't want everyone to hate me for what I think is best because I already have one child and why would I not give him up but I just don't feel that bond with her. I didn't like that I got pregnant and tired talking about adoption before to her dad and he flat out told me no

I agree with @pebblestone , maybe that's best due to people who can't have kids who love kids or your feelings might change once you actually give birth to her.

@averysmommy16 If that's what u think is best for u guys. I got raped n gave my son up for adoption in 2010. Believe me it was hard but he's better off. I couldn't take care of him. N it was very hard to give ur own baby to somebody else. But like I said he's better off then what I could do now.

hope everything's okay with you momma, this is your decision to make, prayers for you

I recently became single and I've not really wanted this baby since I found out I was pregnant her dad doesn't want anything to do with her and I just don't have the bond I have with her that I did when I was pregnant with my son. I can't afford a second child.

@averysmommy16 would never be one to judge on your decision because I don't know the circumstances, but what's wrong? Why are you considering adoption?

yes

yes

adoption of your baby?