Now my bf is leaving to go to the beach. Thanks I don't need your help here or anything I'm only in…

I just don't understand why you would stay with him. he is not a real man.

I'm not. I'm going home this weekend. It's peace out time! @momtobeagain

good. you need to care about your baby and yourself. not him. he doesn't care about you guys. you need positive supportive people around you. this is a very important moment of your life and any real man would be by your side but he doesn't deserve that. his loss.

That's exactly what my mom said! And I will be back home with her and all my family who support, love and care about me. @momtobeagain

good for you! 😃 hopefully he shows he wants to change before you are gone but if not you'll be better off without the stress.

He won't. He leaves Thursday to bring his daughters back to Texas. I'll be gone when he gets back Saturday. He didn't even apologize to me today for what happened with his mom or try to tell me not to go or anything. Then he just takes off when I just got back from L&D and am in so much pain it's hard for me to get up! Smh, like really thanks a lot. He's a vacant jerk who only cares about his daughters and that's it. Doesn't care about me or his son 😢@momtobeagain

I'm so sorry to hear that. you deserve better than that. I'm here if you need someone to talk to. you'll be happier at your family house. just do you and your baby. he is always going to be the father of the baby but you don't have to put up with his crap.

Thanks I appreciate it! @momtobeagain this is so hard all I want to do is cry 😢😢

try getting distracted and focus on just the baby. I'd not good for the baby to be crying a lot. if he is like nothing happens you act more careless than him.

I'm in so much pain, idk what it is and they didn't at the hospital either feels like my pelvic bone is broken @momtobeagain idk how I'm going to pack everything if this pain doesn't subside

wow if I was closer I would go help you try to pack at least the necessary for you and baby. and just do it little by little. try to get rest hun

Thank you I'm trying! My mom is bringing my uncles with her Saturday. She said everyone will help me pack if I need them too and then pack all of mine and babies stuff into their 3 cars so hopefully it'll all fit. I guess I could leave behind some stuff and ask my baby's father to bring it down to me when he comes for the delivery of the baby. I don't want to ask him to do that but if we can't fit everything he will have too. I want to try and keep things civil on our end ( I'm sure we'll do a lot of fighting ) but I still need him. He needs to help me with this baby and j can't bring him to court right away for custody and child support so I hope he realizes he still needs to financially help me @momtobeagain

yes that's right. thank God you have your family in this moments. and yes no matter what he will be the father and is better that way. better to keep being civil cause you are going to have to communicate for the rest of your life. I hope everything turns out good for you and baby.

oh and try to smile cause you are beautiful and expecting a beautiful baby boy!!!!

😃

Thank you so much for being my listening ear! I appreciate it so much. This shit is really sitting heavy with me😟 I never thought any of this would be happening. Idk what happened to my loving caring bf, he's been dead and gone for awhile, and idk who this man is. It's super hard and I'm just going to concentrate on my son and me. He's put me through so much already emotionally I feel so bad for putting my son through it when I should of ended it a long time ago 😕@momtobeagain

yup baby doesn't deserve to be around that. you're always welcome!