but hubby confronted her without me having to snap.at first he couldn't really read her out. but one day she tries to reach in for a hug to say goodbye and he stopped her and told her he preferes to shake her hand she got upset and was insulted and avoided him ever since. she even stopped trying to go out her way to say hi to me. (fony)

had a similar situation with my husband... i told him how i felt and how its his job to correct it not mine. if she did not listen report her to HR. As a woman i will not go to his job and confront the girl. even though we are married i never consider my husband to be someone i own but someone i teamed up for life with. so going to her to me is possesive and classless he knows his role he knows what she is trying to do he should correct it just as much as he would want you to if the shoe was on the other foot

exactly what @babes101116 said. communication is the key to a successful marriage.

Talk to him then, be honest. Tell him you trust him but her behavior is really bothering you.

we have been doing that. when he tells me me it bothers me to the point I want to do something. idk if he wants that. @cjones @babes101116

What @cjones said

if your husband not paying any attention then let it be. you and your husband should laugh at how crazy she is. sit back and let her look like a fool.

Confront her! She needs too know there is boundaries and we can only be so nice before you cross the line.