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I'm learning to appreciate my OB every appointment. At first I hated him cause I felt he was a smartass and not very…

I'm learning to appreciate my OB every appointment. At first I hated him cause I felt he was a smartass and not very informative when really I was just anxious cause this is my first but now that I think about its only because he's done his job for so long he knows what should be stressed over and what shouldn't. all he checks for is my baby's heartbeat and my blood pressure and I'm out. and he made it known that cervical checks aren't necessary unless there is a complication and that it's optional. helps me stay calm. so many moms come up to me and tell me all these things that they had done but I'm good right where I'm at...😊 baby is healthy. 👍 countin' down the days!! ❤

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Cynthia Vargas

Мама двоих (5 лет, 14 лет), ждёт третьего

my first ob did vaginal checks 20 weeks on my second ob did them 30 weeks on and this ob did one today only because I told her I had some blood and mucus if not not until 37weeks all ob work differently I'm glad ur more comfy now

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

So over this feeling! Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just…

So over this feeling! Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just cause we don't like them and find he self soothes. For the past three times my mother has had him, she has gone against our rule and given him a dummy and of course I spoke to her about it (that's all my knowledge on how many times she's done it). On Sunday we celebrated my stepfathers birthday and due to OH working I had to do it alone which isn't the thing that bothered me. The thing that bothered me was no matter what I said regarding ds I wasn't listened to. I told my mother to sit behind ds if she was going to sit him up on the floor as he hasn't got the whole balance thing down pact but she didn't and then ds falls and starts crying cause he hurt himself, I picked him up and my mother just came and took him off me! I told her he can't forward face yet as he is below the shoulder line in order to forward face but they did anyway. I get it's her first grandchild and she's excited but I never got to share the news about ds's first tooth or his first attempt at crawling to the family because she already done it. Yes I know, I probably sound petty asf! I had to repeatedly ask my mother to take me and ds home as he was tired and close to the over tired stage. On the way home ds fell asleep, luckily I was sitting beside him and looked at him cause he had fallen asleep and had his head facing down so I quickly grabbed his head and held it up till we got home.

Really need to vent rn... Im not the type of person that likes putting my personal business out but I really need…

Really need to vent rn... Im not the type of person that likes putting my personal business out but I really need somebody to talk to.... So here it goes 😒. Yesterday I bought my first car ever for a $1000 it needs minor work ( no biggie), but it drives amazing. And my s/o is going off on me because I bought a car wow he was at work. So he says "I'm rushing". But I'm at home with two mfn kids all day everyday and when I need something done I have to wait til his off day just to get things done.. (Not fair) and with me and the kids having doctor appts all next week n he's gonna be working I'm tryna figure out what's the problem.. I'm starting to think🤔 he just dont want me to have a car.