Мамлайф
Мамлайф
Приложение для мам
Jasmine
Jasmine
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I guess people just don't get it... :(

I guess people just don't get it... :(

I left my husband because he had cheated on me and lied about it and he decided to start "hanging out" with this new girl that a friend introduced him to and he basically left me and our children to be with these people 2.5 months ago. I am sick of people telling me "after what he did to you just move on, get over him, he's worthless, he didn't really love you"

Okay first off, I cannot get over him. I was with that man for 8 years of my life! He's given me 3 gorgeous little girls and a little man who's gonna be joining us soon. He did do me wrong but that doesn't mean he's never loved me or that he doesn't love me. His head and heart were in the wrong place recently. He isn't worthless. He does great when he's working and does everything for our children on his own! I am struggling because this man STILL has my heart. I love him no matter what! It was just best to leave with a broken heart then it was to stay and be completely unhappy...

9

Комментарии

michellevaldez4750

Michelle ValdezМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

and it definitely does not mean he didn't love you. It doesn't mean he still doesn't either. ppl do shitty things sometimes out of selfishness but it doesn't mean they don't care.

Ответить

michellevaldez4750

Michelle ValdezМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Until someone has been in your shoes it's so easy for them to say stuff like that. Don't listen to what other ppl say, you take as much time as you need, if you can work things out with him and that's what you want don't let anyone try to make you feel bad or stupid for doing it. You know what's best for you and your kids. ♡♡♡

Ответить

newmommy0906

newmommy0906

Agreed with@emkasting

Ответить

emtackett

emilyМама сына-младенца

I can't even express how sorry I am that you're going through this. I can't imagine how tough of a situation that put you in, and how broken you must feel. But you're right, it doesn't mean he never loved you. Of course not. I hope you're still finding joy in your pregnancy and looking forward to meeting your little man

Ответить

themommaoffour

JasmineМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

it's my sister. she's not supporting me or anything but she wants what's best but she's never been in this situation. My mom (whom we live with) wants me to just realize that what he did was shitty and I know that @newmommy0906

Ответить

newmommy0906

newmommy0906

If these people are not f*cking feeding or financing your life tell them to kick rocks

Ответить

lovebeingmommy

AllyМама сына (1 год), беременна (1 нед.)

@themommaoffour, and he is the father of your children. it's impossible to cut ties

Ответить

themommaoffour

JasmineМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

it makes it difficult because they all want me to cut ties with him completely but I can't since we're still legally married and have children. Thank You @allyk.xmommy

Ответить

lovebeingmommy

AllyМама сына (1 год), беременна (1 нед.)

oh hunny. I'm so sorry. I know people say those things to try to help but they don't realise it doesn't help at all. I'm not going to lie and say it gets any better, but it gets easier to deal with. and to be honest, giving him another chance will make things harder. just keep your chin up love. keep strong for your babies. he will see what he has done, and realise what it caused. good luck in your future

Ответить

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.

Rant My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't…

Rant My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wrong, but he can really get on my nerves and makes me upset to the point I go to bed earlier than him and cry until I fall asleep. Idk if it's the hormones or something/: I try to be a great fiancé. But I always seem to fail /:

i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates…

i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that they need make up but they don't. Make up to me is just to do it for fun and sometimes when I feel insecure. Hes the only man that has made me feel beautiful without my hair straightened, without make up on and in my baggy clothes. I can burp in front of him, I can do weird things in front of him, etc. He has taught me so many things in the last (almost) 3 years and im so grateful for him. He taught me how to make pork chops and steaks, how to play some videogames, how to make white rice, how to budget, etc.

😵 How do you tell the father of your child that you don't see him as your husband in the future. I love him but I'm not…

😵 How do you tell the father of your child that you don't see him as your husband in the future. I love him but I'm not in love with him. He has been asking to get married but I don't know. your supposed to want to be around that person every chance you get. but if he calls me I'm instantly annoyed. if he touches me I get annoyed if he wants a kiss I get annoyed. He is a great guy he loves his baby and he works so hard to provide for us but I'm just meh. I feel guilty and so ungrateful. I'm 19 and he's 22 we've been. together for 2 and a half years and I've known him since elementary school. should I stick with it and make it work or should I let it go. thoughts please