I guess people just don't get it... :(
I left my husband because he had cheated on me and lied about it and he decided to start "hanging out" with this new girl that a friend introduced him to and he basically left me and our children to be with these people 2.5 months ago. I am sick of people telling me "after what he did to you just move on, get over him, he's worthless, he didn't really love you"
Okay first off, I cannot get over him. I was with that man for 8 years of my life! He's given me 3 gorgeous little girls and a little man who's gonna be joining us soon. He did do me wrong but that doesn't mean he's never loved me or that he doesn't love me. His head and heart were in the wrong place recently. He isn't worthless. He does great when he's working and does everything for our children on his own! I am struggling because this man STILL has my heart. I love him no matter what! It was just best to leave with a broken heart then it was to stay and be completely unhappy...
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Until someone has been in your shoes it's so easy for them to say stuff like that. Don't listen to what other ppl say, you take as much time as you need, if you can work things out with him and that's what you want don't let anyone try to make you feel bad or stupid for doing it. You know what's best for you and your kids. ♡♡♡
I can't even express how sorry I am that you're going through this. I can't imagine how tough of a situation that put you in, and how broken you must feel. But you're right, it doesn't mean he never loved you. Of course not. I hope you're still finding joy in your pregnancy and looking forward to meeting your little man
it's my sister. she's not supporting me or anything but she wants what's best but she's never been in this situation. My mom (whom we live with) wants me to just realize that what he did was shitty and I know that @newmommy0906
If these people are not f*cking feeding or financing your life tell them to kick rocks
@themommaoffour, and he is the father of your children. it's impossible to cut ties
it makes it difficult because they all want me to cut ties with him completely but I can't since we're still legally married and have children. Thank You @allyk.xmommy
oh hunny. I'm so sorry. I know people say those things to try to help but they don't realise it doesn't help at all. I'm not going to lie and say it gets any better, but it gets easier to deal with. and to be honest, giving him another chance will make things harder. just keep your chin up love. keep strong for your babies. he will see what he has done, and realise what it caused. good luck in your future
and it definitely does not mean he didn't love you. It doesn't mean he still doesn't either. ppl do shitty things sometimes out of selfishness but it doesn't mean they don't care.