I will be a FTM in December. We are a military family, and most military wives choose not to work.…

I will be a FTM in December. We are a military family, and most military wives choose not to work. However, I want to so that way I stay busy during the day, but I'm so scared to leave my newborn baby with any daycare or "stranger"... My question is, how old were your babies when you left them with a daycare or babysitter? How'd you get over the feeling of constant worry? I'm the biggest worrier out of all the people I've ever met, so I know I'll worry constantly..