Why do people think they can come visit you in the hospital after you have the baby when y'all…

amen. nobody is gonna know I'm in the hospital til my 2nd day there. (I'll probably be there 4 or 5 days due to C-Section so I'll let people visit. lol)

Yea like these people want me to call or text them sayin I'm in labor.. Like excuse me??? Absolutely not. I told her I'll prob have visitors the 2nd day but my son will be meeting his brother before anyone else does @mommaofthree2017

@xoashl3ylynnxo, Definantly agree with that. lol. both of my boys will meet their new sibling before anyone else.

it annoyed me so much cause my boyfriend's mother texted everyone telling them I had my daughter within 10 minutes of having her and a lot of her family showed up wanting to hold my baby and kiss her when I haven't even met them before so I finally got fed up and told the nurses not to let anyone in unless I say it's okay

She's like I wanna know every detail. I'm sorry but that's s very personal time for me and my family I don't think outsiders should be involved that much it's not like we are the best of friends lol @mommaofthree2017

Yea with my first born my SO sister and mom tried to invite ppl up and got shut down so fat they was all mad at me. Like excuse me no I don't even know them like that @belles_mom422

@belles_mom422, it was the exact same way with my youngest. this time I'm keeping everyone out. the nurses will know I won't be having any visitors this time. @xoashl3ylynnxo I don't blame you. my husband's family nor my family will know this time until I am ready for visitors. the only one other than my SO that will know will be the person babysitting my older kids

Yessss same here! I'm sure I'll get a lot of back lash but I really don't care bc these 2 are the ones that been there thru every step @mommaofthree2017

@xoashl3ylynnxo, that's the only way you can be otherwise you'll be bombarded. you know they will all get over it. if they don't then too bad. 👏😃✌👋 lol

Lol exactly! I personally don't care anymore no one has really tried to talk to me this whole pregnancy. It's like don't try to start acting like I care now bahah @mommaofthree2017

@xoashl3ylynnxo, I feel ya but with me ima make a list for the hospital and give it to them. So if they not on the list they can't see me or the baby don't have time for the fake stuff.

Yes!!! Like the one girl I use to work with on nights and we was cool but she didn't include me in her pregnancy really while I worked with her and I didn't feel any type of way about it bc that's not my business but now she's like I wanna know when u go in labor and I guess she bought some stuff for the baby and I'm not having a baby shower. So she's making me feel like I should let her up bc she bought stuff ughhh I hate it @nae1220

I only want my mom dad n hubby in there my siblings can come after to see them but no friends or distant family

I TOTALLY agree... I have a friend who has been a little distant since she found out I am pregnant...but I know she is going to ask to come to the hospital....NOPE!

Yes!!!!

I'm probably not gonna post on fb that I had him till either I feel like havin visitors or I left the hospital already. @ashleymartin.122216

Pshhh! Agree with everyone! Nobody's coming cuz of their nosey lil self. It's about the people that stick with you that get to share your joy! Wala!

Exactly!! The ones who helped you thru it @desirechild