*RANT*

My whole pregnancy, my mom kept telling me that after I had the baby I wouldn't be able to do much. That she would watch her so I could sleep. That I could leave her there and go get a break whenever I needed. That she would watch her when I went back to work. The first week was awesome. I could leave her with mom to go get groceries. I could stay overnight at the hospital 8 days after having her when I hemorrhaged again without the baby and got to relax while her and my fiancee cleaned. Then less than 48 hours after I'm home from the hospital, the girl from before brings her almost 8 month old over because she wants to stay with her bf and doesn't wanna deal with it. We still have the baby. Almost 2 weeks now. And I am having to give MY child's bottles, formula, bubs, burp rags, clothes, even her pack and play so I now have no changing table and can't keep her bassinet out of the floor because the other child has the damn playpen they hook on! She hasn't watched my child for more than 30 mins. She doesn't help me. Hell she came and destroyed 3 days of work in the nursery organizing shit to find more of my baby's clothes to use on the other kid! The neighbors kid has became the new favorite daughter and now MY child is suffering because of it! We should have just stayed in nc and not come back 3 months ago!