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Diana
Diana
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (19 нед.)

I have never been insulted this much by a doctor. I switched because I want to attempt a vbac and my midwife couldn't do…

I have never been insulted this much by a doctor. I switched because I want to attempt a vbac and my midwife couldn't do it. He told me since I had a c-section it would lower my chances to almost impossible for my vbac. He also told me if I gain more than 20lbs this pregnancy they won't even deliver me at the hospital in town and I would be turned down even if I went into emergency. I felt like crying I bawled my eyes out in the car. My old ob back it Chicago would've never said that to me! She always respected what I wanted. He told me I might as well schedule my c-section because it won't work.

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guaderrama_babies2

Diana

Мама сына-младенца, беременна (19 нед.)

@zarnicole, thank you so much. I already called in and complained.

zarnicole

Zarnigor

Мама сына (9 лет)

@guaderrama_babies2, I had a C section and I hold my baby right a way ... And I had a asshole Doctor too I had to switch . There is special number u can call and complain against him , u need to give his information . After I complain she got messed up cause her office had so much violation and her assistent end up calling me trying to be sweet . Good luck and don't let others to get to u .

id0007022

t

@guaderrama_babies2, really?!? Thats long!!! I had to be put to sleep for my c section they could not get me numb but I woke up an hr later and there he was. I wont know till the day of my c section this time if ill be awake or not but i have a male dr and he is the best but that dr u went to i dont blame you for feeling the way u do!

guaderrama_babies2

Diana

Мама сына-младенца, беременна (19 нед.)

@deannapooley, I'm due around new year's so maybe that's why too. He just wants to get it out the way so he can go on vacation.

guaderrama_babies2

Diana

Мама сына-младенца, беременна (19 нед.)

@deannapooley, I will be finding a specialist and a woman I feel like men don't understand a woman's want to deliver naturally. I just want to have that experience. I didn't see my son until a whole day after having him because of my c-section. I just want to hold my baby with all the gunky stuff and experience that bond. With my son it took me a couple of days to bond and I feel like the c-section had a lot to do with that. @cassandrareyna14 I already did I will be scheduling an appointment soon.

cassandrareyna14

Cassandra

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (22 нед.)

Google docs that specialize in vbacs in your area! I'm sorry you had to experience that mama!☹️

id0007022

t

@guaderrama_babies2, bunch of b.s i was c sectioned with my son and have a high bmi making me high risk and my dr gave me the option of vabc or c section...i choosed c section and he just told me it was my decision and was very supportive i go the 15th of this month for my c section 😁

guaderrama_babies2

Diana

Мама сына-младенца, беременна (19 нед.)

@ladyameliasmama, oh I will trust me. I hate this man with a passion right now

ladyameliasmama

Katelyn

Мама дочки-младенца

You need a different doctor. That's just asinine

guaderrama_babies2

Diana

Мама сына-младенца, беременна (19 нед.)

@deannapooley, I will not be going back ever. I'm just going to find another doctor who specializes in high risk patients even though I'm not high risk. He said attempting a vbac with a bmi of 44 was high risk.

del_1512250114_arivera64

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smh

guaderrama_babies2

Diana

Мама сына-младенца, беременна (19 нед.)

@ladyameliasmama, that's what I said! he even assumed that I had gestational diabetes with my son which I didn't then said I was diabetic without a test.

guaderrama_babies2

Diana

Мама сына-младенца, беременна (19 нед.)

@arivera64, everyone in town recommend him because he was such a great doctor.

housfullofgrls

Jessie

Мама двоих (4 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

Bullshit. Find a new doctor

id0007022

t

I would have gave him a big FUCK YOU! And walked out (they can not deny u emergency service!!)

ladyameliasmama

Katelyn

Мама дочки-младенца

That's bullshit a 8 lbs baby is not unhealthy!! what an asshole.

del_1512250114_arivera64

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your doc is an asshole

del_1512250114_arivera64

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A hospital CANNOT deny you service in an emergency situation. Giving birth is urgent. If you are not near another hospital and are about to give birth any moment, they cannot deny you

guaderrama_babies2

Diana

Мама сына-младенца, беременна (19 нед.)

@arivera64, he said the L&D would turn me down if my body mass index was over 55. He said I can only gain 20 more lbs. I have only gained 3 and with my son I only gained 29. The next hospital is 30 mins away one town over. He also said my son was overweight and a perfect baby should've been born at 6lbs not 8lbs.

del_1512250114_arivera64

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No hospital can turn you away if you go in for emergency care! That's bs.

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