I have never been insulted this much by a doctor. I switched because I want to attempt a vbac and my midwife couldn't do it. He told me since I had a c-section it would lower my chances to almost impossible for my vbac. He also told me if I gain more than 20lbs this pregnancy they won't even deliver me at the hospital in town and I would be turned down even if I went into emergency. I felt like crying I bawled my eyes out in the car. My old ob back it Chicago would've never said that to me! She always respected what I wanted. He told me I might as well schedule my c-section because it won't work.
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@guaderrama_babies2, I had a C section and I hold my baby right a way ... And I had a asshole Doctor too I had to switch . There is special number u can call and complain against him , u need to give his information . After I complain she got messed up cause her office had so much violation and her assistent end up calling me trying to be sweet . Good luck and don't let others to get to u .
@guaderrama_babies2, really?!? Thats long!!! I had to be put to sleep for my c section they could not get me numb but I woke up an hr later and there he was. I wont know till the day of my c section this time if ill be awake or not but i have a male dr and he is the best but that dr u went to i dont blame you for feeling the way u do!
@deannapooley, I'm due around new year's so maybe that's why too. He just wants to get it out the way so he can go on vacation.
@deannapooley, I will be finding a specialist and a woman I feel like men don't understand a woman's want to deliver naturally. I just want to have that experience. I didn't see my son until a whole day after having him because of my c-section. I just want to hold my baby with all the gunky stuff and experience that bond. With my son it took me a couple of days to bond and I feel like the c-section had a lot to do with that. @cassandrareyna14 I already did I will be scheduling an appointment soon.
Google docs that specialize in vbacs in your area! I'm sorry you had to experience that mama!☹️
@guaderrama_babies2, bunch of b.s i was c sectioned with my son and have a high bmi making me high risk and my dr gave me the option of vabc or c section...i choosed c section and he just told me it was my decision and was very supportive i go the 15th of this month for my c section 😁
@ladyameliasmama, oh I will trust me. I hate this man with a passion right now
@deannapooley, I will not be going back ever. I'm just going to find another doctor who specializes in high risk patients even though I'm not high risk. He said attempting a vbac with a bmi of 44 was high risk.
@ladyameliasmama, that's what I said! he even assumed that I had gestational diabetes with my son which I didn't then said I was diabetic without a test.
@arivera64, everyone in town recommend him because he was such a great doctor.
I would have gave him a big FUCK YOU! And walked out (they can not deny u emergency service!!)
That's bullshit a 8 lbs baby is not unhealthy!! what an asshole.
A hospital CANNOT deny you service in an emergency situation. Giving birth is urgent. If you are not near another hospital and are about to give birth any moment, they cannot deny you
@arivera64, he said the L&D would turn me down if my body mass index was over 55. He said I can only gain 20 more lbs. I have only gained 3 and with my son I only gained 29. The next hospital is 30 mins away one town over. He also said my son was overweight and a perfect baby should've been born at 6lbs not 8lbs.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
What is it like to have a c-section? I was told by my doctor I would likely have one so I am kinda nervous.😯😯
I told my friend my mom wants to throw me a baby shower and write on the invite "monetary gifts only" and he told me that people aren't trying to pay for my "gas bill" I'm offended because a lot of money goes into a baby shower, and if you're gonna give me a 10$ blanket from Ross that I probably won't even use it's a waste. I rather use those 10$ for my honest company diaper subscription.
Next child
Speaking to my partner tonight about having our next child i ideally don't want another for a few years yet but he turned around and said only on one condition you have a c section ( i got a 3rd degree tear with Oliver) I actually don't want a c section but he said he won't have another child otherwise am I being unfair ? I loved my birth with Oliver i loved that feeling him being placed on me, but he said if I don't have a c section the next baby won't be with him :(
C-section
So tomorrow I go in for my c-section I was hoping he would make an appearance beforehand so I could get the labour i wanted, but obviously I’ve made such a lovely home for him. Any tips on recovery would be much appreciated please? Xx
@zarnicole, thank you so much. I already called in and complained.