So my fiancé just came home from deployment on Wednesday and literally everything he has done has been with our roommate. Even after I point out that he has spent no time with me and that he keeps just leaving me home nothing changes. He thinks sex changes it but I can't even enjoy sex because he asks me the whole time if I'm gonna be mad after and if it changes it a little. And yesterday he was so mean to me about going into L&D for contractions because he was tired and hungry so I said "sorry to have inconvenienced you I wont have you take me next time!" And on the way home he just continued to be rude and even called me a cunt so I locked him out of our room and made him sleep on the couch. And today we are right back at it again barely talked haven't tried to fix anything and he just left with our roommate to go get a new video game. I just don't know what to do....
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He didn't go anywhere dangerous he was in and out of ports the whole time. We are both in the navy. Its just pushing me to the point where I'm about ready to leave him. And its like he doesn't care he just pretends that we are ok
PTSD?? My husband and I both have it from gojng to war. We were very distance from our loved ones when we came back it took a while for us to get used to regular life again. Unless he went somewhere not dangerous there is no excuse for his behavior. But I know what it's like to come home lost and not want to be around anyone unless they were in the army to and know what I went through
Girl yes I have tried everything he basically laughs at me when I tell him I'll leave because he thinks I really wont leave him! I guess the only reason it bothers me is because I never want our daughter to feel like she comes second to his friends or his car or anything like that. Its not for myself as much as it is for her! Yes I would like more attention but I'm far more worried about how my child will feel in the long run. He says he'll never make her feel like this and I want so badly to believe him but its hard. @babyrossmommy