I need some advice, opinions, something... I found out I was pregnant about three weeks ago and I…
I need some advice, opinions, something... I found out I was pregnant about three weeks ago and I told my boyfriend, he didn't freak out he just mentioned abortion and I could never get myself to have an abortion so of course I told him that wasn't an option. Long story short last night he was threatening to kill himself... I told him I'm not getting an abortion, I'll leave and do it by myself if he doesn't want anything to do with it and he tells me "if I leave he's going to kill himself" he said that many times if I left he would kill himself.. I don't know what to do about this at all. This is the second time he's acted crazy... About a week ago he held a gun to his head and said "kill the baby or I'll kill myself" I'm scared. I don't know what to do.. I know this might not be the place to post this but I'm scared and don't know what to do...
Trudy·
Мама сына (1 год)
It's manipulation baby don't fall for it. I would honestly leave. This is his way of trying to control you. When he goes to work pack your shit and go. If you stay it will only get worse. My mom stayed with my father for 17 years had the shit beat out of her frequently. Don't get trapped.
Loretta Crutcher·
Have you asked him WHY he doesn't want a baby?
Trudy·
Мама сына (1 год)
If you need someone to talk to you can message me
rhiannon·
Мама троих детей
Leave because its only going to gwt worse. I know you are concerned about his well being but you need to put you and your baby first. Tell him he needs to get help.
Erin·
Мама сына (2 года)
I went through almost the same thing with my sons father, I would leave. He is trying to control and manipulate you. You need to take care of yourself and your baby now. If you want to talk more you can message me :)
Sonya·
First and foremost I think it's important to remove yourself from the home. Just bc he is thinking irrational and has threatened the baby which obviously means threatening you. Which to me are most important here! You can also call local authorities and tell them that he is making suicidal threats and they will go out and try to get him help. I am so sorry this is happening to you but I promise choosing against abortion will be a beautiful outcome for you! This baby will bring you a blissful life. I'm here if you need support you can call me or write me on here! We all are here for you!! ❤️
Carla·
Мама четверых детей
Love yourself and your baby more than you love him and leave. If he so choose to off himself he'll do it regardless of you staying with him or not. He's a weak man and you do not want him to take you with him.
Riane Alexander·
В ожидании первенца
you need to leave the house. get away from him. if he's saying this now, it might not take much time for him to possibly try to hurt the baby before its even born. its manipulation and all he wants to do is control you. if you need to talk or anything you can message me on here
octobermom14·
Мама сына-младенца
he sounds controlling and manipulate person. take care yourself i agree with @sonya15 call the authorities. take your little one growing inside of you
deleted-user·
I'd call a crisis center and have him committed. then I'd probably leave don't abort your baby because he's being controlling and manipulative