I'm at the point where I just want everyone to leave me the hell alone 🙄
My due date is in 3 days and obviously I know that. Everyone is acting all excited for my son to make his arrival but let's be real. Not a single person is more excited than I am. If anyone is ready for him to be here it is ME. All week everyone has been CONSTANTLY asking me "are you in labor yet?". As if I'm a doctor and just know these things. Am I in active labor? No. Could I be in the early stages of labor? Possibly. Asking me 100 times a day isn't going to change whether I'm in labor or not. I'm so irritable and exhausted I'm done trying to rush him to show up. Everyone keeps telling me "do squats", "do lunges", "do some jumping jacks", "go walking or jogging" NO NO and NO. I'm already uncomfortable as hell. I'm not going to put any more stress on myself just because everyone around me wants to see my son before my due date. I get it. Babies are exciting. But don't forget about the person who has to do the pushing and the actual hard work. I would prefer to relax before I have to do all that. All the people who keep giving me all this "advice" don't have kids or it's my husband. Someone who hasn't ever been around during labor or delivery. I know what I'm doing. I'm not rushing this. I was 3cm yesterday, I had a membrane sweep, and I lost my mucus plug completely this morning. It is literally a waiting game now and that's all anyone can do now. WAIT. Everyone needs to leave me the hell alone already 😒
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Thanks for all the ❤️ guys! I think I'm in shock! Labor story in a bit I'm being attacked with visitors lol
labor partners
Who will be there to help you get through your labor? I'm29 weeks and am realizing I dont have anyone to be there for me. Really, I dont have anyone now to get me through my pregnancy. I've been doing it all on my own but once it's Showtime, I won't be able to do it on my own. It's a little depressing and gets me emotional but I need to snap out of it and find someone soon!!!
Before u become pregnant think of this
Do I want to be uncomfortable as hell for 40-42 weeks?
Do I want to be in horrible pain for up to 14-16 hours even longer
Can I handle pushing a big ass head through my vagina
Can I handle this with no pain meds(sometimes u can't make it in time)
Do I want to go to the hospital 10x before I'm actually in labor.
Because inducing your labor at 32-37 weeks for your own selfish needs or getting a csection to do it the "easy" way is just plain selfish and FYI a...
I do love the way people say you will know when your in labour and having contractions well I will be honest I didn't know and my pains weren't that severe till I was fully dilated I'm sure everyone has different pain levels
It's really the worst thing right now. I'm in such a good mood up until someone starts asking. @preciouslove