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Megan
Megan
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (39 нед.)

I'm at the point where I just want everyone to leave me the hell alone 🙄

I'm at the point where I just want everyone to leave me the hell alone 🙄

My due date is in 3 days and obviously I know that. Everyone is acting all excited for my son to make his arrival but let's be real. Not a single person is more excited than I am. If anyone is ready for him to be here it is ME. All week everyone has been CONSTANTLY asking me "are you in labor yet?". As if I'm a doctor and just know these things. Am I in active labor? No. Could I be in the early stages of labor? Possibly. Asking me 100 times a day isn't going to change whether I'm in labor or not. I'm so irritable and exhausted I'm done trying to rush him to show up. Everyone keeps telling me "do squats", "do lunges", "do some jumping jacks", "go walking or jogging" NO NO and NO. I'm already uncomfortable as hell. I'm not going to put any more stress on myself just because everyone around me wants to see my son before my due date. I get it. Babies are exciting. But don't forget about the person who has to do the pushing and the actual hard work. I would prefer to relax before I have to do all that. All the people who keep giving me all this "advice" don't have kids or it's my husband. Someone who hasn't ever been around during labor or delivery. I know what I'm doing. I'm not rushing this. I was 3cm yesterday, I had a membrane sweep, and I lost my mucus plug completely this morning. It is literally a waiting game now and that's all anyone can do now. WAIT. Everyone needs to leave me the hell alone already 😒

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meeegannoel

Megan

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (39 нед.)

It's really the worst thing right now. I'm in such a good mood up until someone starts asking. @preciouslove

preciouslove

Angela

the constant asking was so annoying to me too

momof5222

chasity

yikes

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

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Before u become pregnant think of this Do I want to be uncomfortable as hell for 40-42 weeks? Do I want to be in…

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