question.. anybody know why they say you cant have sex til after 6weeks?

Increased risk of tears/bleeding, risk of infection and high risk of pregnancy.

your body needs to heal. You are also at risk of infection during that time

1 because your still helping 2 because your still bleeding 3 because your pelvic floor hast had time to heal itself and 4 because you could damage your body really really bad.... That being said if you are given medical clearance go for it!!

@babes101116, @arivera64 @tater4414 thanks. ladys... it sure has been hard

Haha trust me I know!! Totally had that problem with my first haha

because he will fall right out! lmao jk, sorry I couldn't resist.

YOUR VAGINA NEEDS TO HEAL !!!! just listen its not that hard pretty sure you won't be worried about it anyway with the newborn

@arivera64, exactly! some of these posts are common sense gone out the window

If you really need to release and you don't have any rips or anything from delivery you can always 'message' to release. The only reason they say to wait is due to the fact your uterus is basically an open wound and in those 6 weeks give the uterus time to make a scab and heal properly. You damage that scab and it raises the risk of infection 100+. You can still play with yourself or your SO just stay at the clit.

Also, and I haven't seen this mentioned yet, after giving birth your EXTREMELY FERTILE. It's ridiculously easy to get pregnant again.

thanks girls for all the good advice

@dawnrose lmfaoooooo funny but I don't have anything to add, they said it all