great advice @transformermom

It'll come it's all in Gods plan just have faith don't rush it

Good advice @transformermom

Don't rush into any relationship. Do background check secretly on anyone you are dating or consider marrying. Get to know their parents and siblings. Watch out for red flags like drug abuse, women's clothes all over their apartment, inconsistent facts or behavior, pressures to have premarital sex or looking at rings when you both barely know each other. Lack of bible reading and church attedence not good. Stay away from the bars or clubs