@sophia8937, yea ofcourse because its scheduled which is easier for them. and they make more money. hard to find a good doctor that actually cares

@lorraine2014 weird how they try to pressure you into them

um u dont have to have a csection. u can have an epidural and do vaginal. ima tell u right now i wish i was abke to do vaginal. i had 2 csections. and now they tryna force me to have another even doh its been 7 yrs. i want a vaginal birth. csection is so hard. and i went thru so much. u can bleed out. ur next one u can have an attached placenta or low lying anterior. then max csections u should have is 3 to 4. 4 is pushing it already. its up 2 u but u should read up on it.

I'm pretty sure there's laws against that. unless it's something that can harm you or baby, you can veeto whatever he says and he can't drop you from care

@showersoverflowers well according to the doctor its their way or no way so if i dont listen i just won't have a doctor but maybe thats okay tho ill talk to my SO about what he thinks maybe he can give me advice 😳

That's terrible. This is your body and your health. you need to be able to do things in a way you are comfortable with. They should be willing to talk to about ALL of your options rather than what's most convenient for them. Maybe do some research on your own and find what you are most comfortable with and then discuss it with him

@showersoverflowers yeah with my situation im so confused and i feel like everyones pulling me in different directions and telling me something different 😔 the doctor is probably going to end up dropping me like my last one did for not doing exactly what they want ....

I heard the same thing . I'm talk to my doctor to see what's the best thing for me !! @sophia8937

@jrmommy i know what u mean im the same i cant tolerate pain and im afraid of labor but im 38 weeks so im hella close , i hate the pelvic exams everyone INSISTS it dont hurt that its just uncomfortable but to me it felt like birth with no epidural

I'd imagine the c section recovery to be 100 times worst than having a baby vaginally. There's so many things they can do to help you deliver vaginally. don't feel pressured to do a c section

I can't tolerate any kind of pain . I'm only 30 weeks right now but scared to death to go in labor I feels likes its getting closer every day @sophia8937

@jrmommy, the doctor said since i cant tolerate a pelvic exam ill need one

how do you know you will need one ?