first post: I am a stay at home girlfriend by request of my SO and main problem is finances. I feel like he does not understand that two people are relying on him and we need reassurances to live comfortably. Lately I have been so sad because there are no reassurances. I told him last night that I want to curl up in a ball and cry. His response was ' why are you talking to me like that?' I could not believe his lack of concern and his disregard of my feelings.
@keeganmommy, yes I have a seasonal home business but I have not learned how to balance a business and taking care of the home
@belizeanhoney, have you ever considered working from home?? my sister does it and loves it but it takes discipline
Haha if you're anything like Mr you'll be begging to have some time away from your baby. personally it's just not hard for me to be away if he's with my husband or someone I trust
@madibug96, Right! He asked if I can stay at home until the baby is 3 years old and I am thinking I'll try 3 months. lol
if you want to start working then fuck him. he'll be grateful when the money starts coming in and helping
Write him a note of how you really feel. It's little too late for you to start working a new job now. I hope everything gets sorted out for you. Try not to stress though baby feels it
if you both contribute to keeping up with the home it won't be as hard as you think