I find that motion substitutes for my little guy he nurses too for comfort though and he's two years old...rock him in a rocking chair or even a indoor hammock; seriously they are a lifesaver..just make sure hes tanked up on milk through out the day before bedtime! Soft lullabies and off to dream land my little guy goes ...hope some these methods help you! Seriously though I've been there...I'm still there lol ..also let somebody else substitute daddy gramma..get him use to getting put to bed by somebody elses comfort..so he won't be so reliant on you alone...it's very hard breastfeeding I know..just remember this to shall pass enjoy that bond while you can..they grow way too fastπgoodluck