I'm hoping once his daughters leave next week we can work in us and talk civilly and nice to one another and try and get back to how we use to be. It's just been so hard on me, I've been dealing with all this since May, I'm pregnant, And his daughters being here have made it worse. And theirs a lot of things that need to change for us and because the baby will be here soon and we are moving into a new house and so I just can only hope and pray for things to turn around @pebblestone he gives me a glimmer of hope sometimes like just now when we were casually talking about random stuff and joking and laughing and that's what always gets me to really stay is just that tiny hope that things will be ok

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You're going thro this for reasons . There's something her for u to learn . I hope u suffer to long n if h do its suffering for a good cause

No he's not. He saids if I leave its my choice and I can't be mad at him for it. But he doesn't tell me to stay or give me any reason on why I should @pebblestone

I said all can say I don't want to persist anything . I hope all works out :) stay strong .

I'm know . Just don't be scared to leave /walk away if you are . Is he scared about losing you?

I just don't know what happened to the loving caring guy I use to know and fell in love with 😟 I keep trying to give him the benefit of the doubt and he just always always acts the same. And it's like I'm pretty sure he'll still act the same when his daughters leave next week. He did before they came. And he said I was a hypocrite because I act the same way toward him as he does toward me. Why should I give my all to someone who doesn't even give 1% to me?! @pebblestone

Your mom will Mk it work I'm sure ... n if you don't feel ull be happier there with her than going thro what u have been going thro ... Then stay Mk it with him. Or look at other options . If you're a good person like I think u are things will work out for you ... As long as u follow your instincts. If u don't... N u keep trying with guy ... Life will just stay on pause for u but even that's okay if u can Handle it. Ull still have whats waiting out there for you.

I have no where to go 😢 my mom makes it seem like it's so easy to move back with her when I have no room for a baby there and I know her and my step dad are not going to like a screaming crying baby all night. @pebblestone but I can't stay here any longer under these circumstances I've had all I can take 😕

Then walk away. Follow your instincts, always! You'll never be upset or disappointed with urself if you do . But u will if u don't. Mk an easy exit tho

He's been this way my entire pregnancy. Then once I moved up here he started acting like I was just his friend and not his gf. Theirs no love, affection or attention toward me whatsoever. I tried talking to him about it before his daughters got her at the end of May and it got me no where. And he just acts like I'm a shadow in the background@pebblestone

He might be going through personal shit ... Or he enjoys acting like the victim... Or he truly doesn't care. You can't change a man but u can help him figure things out. (Again . If you want to) ask urself is he worth it . Then see if thinks your worth it. If both of you do.. Then there's hope

It is believed that men's hormones change with our during pregnancy . In a friendly /caring way ...ask him if he's okay . A anything bothering him . Can y'all fix it. .... If u care to .

I want to move out! I came back yesterday from being gone a week and I barely got a hi when I came in. No hug no love ( which we barely do anyways) I don't even know why we are together. I'm basically his roommate. @pebblestone

Never mind I just read it. I have to have and epidural , major back issues as is:-)

I hope everything went well btw:) how are u liking your midwife ? Can u tell me the benefits have have one over the OBGYN . If u have time

Be strong n tell him hear him out. Also be strong in other ways .... You don't need his or anybodies approval nor attention . You got someone or people that care . You care about yourself enough that nobody else matters . Hang out with urself more do what u think is fun. Get ready for the baby . Learn new things. Try creative things to do . Focus on who's important(u n baby ) . He'll come around if it's meant for him to be :)