I'm going to be a first time mom in 16 days I'm doing it on my own any pointers.

Ask for help from family and friends whenever possible. I'm doing it alone but it helps to have support around

my family doesn't want anything to do with me.

@panda42293, do you have any friends that could help out every now and then?

I have one good friend. @chichimango I have to still get stuff for the baby I didn't have a shower